Was one of my twins of my bed discontinued?

My twin boys are a hour ago or according to 7months old and healthy, i one then had both on the bed with me upward. I nursed one and i rät that was deflected i, and the next moment i checked, and there Nikolaus went down. I believe, thereß i cried, did as very much as he/it, and he/it sobbed his/its small heart out. He/it ließ bleed a small nose, but after approximately 10mins of crying and I him/it comforts, he/it was to his/its old self back. I fühle now so dreadful, that my husband ignores me and accustomed speech to me. I muß the worst mother in the history besides a part of me is, something says right, you administer, my husband must do this, if he/it not even administers, you help. Ohßer if around it is to be played or, to hold only one of the boys. I fühle me like i, a bad mommy is, and an even worse woman and i feels like i, failed my hubby and my two boys. Am I something to be done, Advice, not certainly?

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Oh honey, the same matter happened to me as my son was about eight months old. I responded, did as well like you, and I weiß, that your heart brakes it.

First, as you yearn as your son, then presents normally that I would not worry. In seven further months, you will respond hardly to a fall, hahahahaha.

Second is a jerk your husband, and I agree with you. He/it muß MIT you is, if matters happen, and is supporting and doesn\'t become angry. The fact, thereß he/it itself, to do, actually decided, IN SUCH A WAY WORSE of the annoyed would check off development and ignoring of you me beyond the belief away. If it I I wäre, \'d marches to him/it upward and says him/it, he/it must step a complete jerk he/it for the presents of the way, that he/it is, and if he/it doesn\'t like, make you the twins with what maybe, he/it his/its lazy one leaves one $$and helps you from more.

You/they let nobody fail, your son will do well that I am sure. Her/its/their husband on the other hand thinks ihn\'s I this somebody, that denied you.

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from along Jen Calm and doesn\'t feel bad! I place auf\'t accused you, and otherwise nobody should, it was a vollständiger accident. You/they let nobody fail... so many mommies does WORSE mistakes! Only, you are grateful, thereß Ihr son O.K. is because all is this das\'s important. Attitude on to your husband and says him/it, thereß it an accident was, and that he/it should be only concerned, that your son is sure. You a mother of the twins dafür, to shout you loudly out, kann\'t is expected, from that, what goes on, to know, constantly. It happens. Glück

through lilloric-Unfälle, if they are not expected, you happen, this is, why they are called, doesn\'t think accidents.i your a bad mommy for it, to want her/it/them near you, and that is only one assumption on my part, but if you fed one, and the other be wade this it there, sounds like him/it the cold shoulder to me.give and see, how he/it likes, deals childishly it.he.

through epic_err.... Eek! Painful situation, around this way, I, that is betted, to feel! ICH\'m not a mother, but everyone does mistakes. You/they kshe/it is önnen\'t to always catch there if they fall and speak literally and pictorially, not now, if they are dear small boys, and not, if they are good-looking grown men. Don\'t fühlt itself to badly over it =] you is, small type simply become accuse you fine and he/it! lol

through diva, you are no bad mother. I think over 90 percent of babies after, you fall from a bed or a chair or something. You/they said wud O.K. ihn\'s I with it doesn\'t worry therefore.

MeineMeine small sister fell from the bed, as she/it was bt approximately 5 months, she/it is O.K..

As far as your husband it goes,... dont pays every mind for him/it.

Say something the not helping of you over him/it.

from Miss D., you first don\'t impress a bad mom, who passes alot, from all original.. you knows, that accidents happen. Only Don\'t ließ original son goes, what I do, at least for 4 hours thats, to sleep, if my children and hit fells her/its/their head. And your husband shouldn\'t deals like it, thereß particularly, if he/it doesn\'t help you. And he/it muß start to help with those boys, and u must say to him/it.. luck and Don\'t worries therefore

durchdurch lil I like many babies thinks you drops of the bed..... LOADS 65 percent of new mommies and daddies interjected babies from the bed or on the ground lived for them besides the diffrence there per adds you him/it because of the feeling the same way

vonvon Tina first has twins of all, you keep your small one in the eye, in order to guarantee, that he/it deals normally, and if not, you call the pediatrician.

It will go my next scrap advice leave! Her/its/their twins will have more autumns, slice, MUCH blue stains and maybe broken bones. My 13 months old daughter, only last week and bald mountain were in the bed with me out, and you 13 months old twin brother sank before ungefähr 3 weeks from his/its manger from. . . it happens, and it will continue to happen. Becoming you/they learns, müssen, you movable, and then. . . and you können there not the whole time is.

With reference to your husband, same advice. He/it muß it lets go and a man is, is you a daddy and takes you more responsibility. He/it doesn\'t have any right to ignore you, these matters happen.

SieSie let nobody fail and at the moment. . . Her/its/their husband läßt you fails. If it I wäre, I would be good and bad for ignoring you, for him/it.

You/they are a good mommy.

Best wishes!

from Stephanie D Firstly original not a bad mommy! This happened 2 whn to him/it my tiny one(s) boy waz, the 6months old,i my Rücken for a rip second nd turned, he/it felled nd i waz n complete panic, that my mommy calls in it to ask her/it/them, would become b O.K. for him/it and after the fight ten mins he/it had calmed paniced whc really n waz set 2 slumber i over! EinenEinen day, that he/it can turn hardly nd, go the nxt, that he/it can, and he/it flyin from the bed,its from, that none a bemängeln, and it could, is not so easy original husbands mistakes nd been, the urs,he rehearses knows that itself, but lived you admit it! Original not a worse wife either,ur, that the Hilfs-u-Bedürfnis from original ur-Ehemann doesn\'t get, and this should inform him/it u! Persinforms him/it id önlich 2 figures upward or sends out,drastic know,bein i, one single mommy is hard, but it can, from original partners estimated b done,not bones nd supported,respected is like bad as well. Glück.

through of course hawaiian oh sweeties. i Gefühl original pain. my son fell from the bed, as also he/it ungefähr 7 month was. everything was fine, but i cuz called that he/it is, that my first and i didnt wades, to do, knows, 911 für all cases. but as his/its mommy calls is original. and like für original ur-Ehemann, like childish can should ignore u he/it... and he/it doesnhilft \'t even????? wow, original ur-Ehemann should be no father if he/it jargon support reception worry of his/its own children. as a man, he/it should himself bemühen, to understand, as difficult motherhood is. i würde only with him/it speaks. Don\'t takes every blame although is not cuz original-responsible. if he/it him/it hülfe, happened wouldnt.

from Jaclyn, the same matter only happened to me recently. IchIch saw one second long, as i to theücksah, she/it, that were overthrown backwards, away and from the bed. Only certainly IchIch brought her/it/them to the hospital to be and is the matters, that seemed important, thereß he/it immediately cried, and didnt loses conciousness. Even if he/it like an Ostei0 0-Stoß on his/its head has, you could call the pedi at least, wants. Don\'t tell a miracale-Arbeiter to your husband Ihr a mommy, children fells the whole time, ouchßer if he/it wants to wrap up your twins in Blasenumhangtuch, you grow up.

from Maddison\'s Mommy ridge of all un, to say your husband therefore, however, deals sorrowfully like a JERK! If so anxiously he/it wäre, as why wasnt he/it, the Nikolaus busy keeps, while you fed the other? You/they are no bad mother. Her/its/their children will fall and her/its/their Köpfe stumbles is everything apart from growing up. As yearn hasnt for itself as he/it, pleases asleep right after it, and he/it normally then deals, there is not anything, which ungefit should be worried ähr. If I you wäre, I would take the trouble to keep my area from my husband, because you the fact, that he/it takes the trouble, feeling about that, what happened, bad, to do, simply dreadful is, and I probably would explode personally on him/it.
Only you know, that you didn\'t do ANYTHING wrong, and except if your husband wants, has to start to then help him/it, no right, you to criticize because of an ACCIDENT!