What time do your children, aged newborn - 7, do you go to the bed?

I thought at it, bedtimes, to change my children, as they woke up to early, and populates on it! continue to be shocked all the time, like früh my kiddies to the bed goes. I muß during the week with 4 children under the age of 7 a strict evening schedule has. Plus my husband doesn\'t comes theück, until they everything are in the bed. PLUS ICH\'m 5 weeks pregnant and rather ermüdet.
My newborns and 4 y/o are cleaned with 5.30 and go to the bed with 6.30pm. my 7 year old twins are cleaned with 6.30 and go to the bed with 7.15pm

I thought of changing it to it:
6.00, bath baby (Isla) and 4 y/o (Tobias)
6.30 read story of Tobias, during nursing from Isla,
6.45 let Tobias Geschichtenbücher looked at, while the roller of Isla,
7.00, spin from lights,
7.15, Badzwillinge,
7.30 read story of twins
7.45 let her/it/them read books
8.00, lights from
8.10 eat the dinner with my husband

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In the reading of it, my first worry is the lack of time, that this schedule allows Dad to interact in the course of time. I place auf\'t meant, your Gefühle, to hurt on any manner, but you make a serious injustice for your children. Her/its/their husband should be allowed and should be encouraged, at your children of teilzunehmen\'s bedtime routine. , And thinks at the Spaß, that you will have the sharing of this duty, that tears and the laughter of your children are, priceless, and time is together every day with all of the family, that is entailed, so. You/they have four blessed ones young on the way with another. Without Rücksicht on his/its occupation, the rise of children receptions and needs, you put together the work. Sie\'wieder the team, who created these children, you should be the team, who bathes, reads, cuddles and prays with this small blessing of God.

It seems to take two hours in order to bring the children to the bed. If you, until Dad home comes, wait, you could share the duties and could become done or few in a hour. Or, you könnten has cleaned she/it and left daddy do the stories and some snugglin, if he/it comes home. These are his/its children, itself dafür to provide and to also lift. I am sure, there are ages of suitable Bücher that could read daddy to the older in three and you could be there the nursing of the baby with them while he/it reads. , If you decide, she/it a sp, to let had ätere bedtime, maybe it works out, you improve, if you it, how 15 minutes of interval, does slowly. Then, they become not so griesgrit becomes ämig because they are drowsy. another book, that is suggestion, if I am allowed to? Like your twins für reading better becomes, while you visit Isla, you leave them Aufnahmedrehungen-Lesung at Tobias. This will help them, itself important too fühlen, to have the small quantity of time, that she/it get, to read, and ideas with the younger brother share, and this frees you upward in order to make some other for a small time.

You/they should take the trouble and together should eat, at least a few times one week. I am sure, thereß the children earlier her/its/their dinner much needs, but they could be given a special offer "if home daddy gets small thing", that could be corroded the table with daddy, during you eats both to your evening.

You/they don\'t mention if the 7-year old ones are in the school, or if you homeschool. Obviously they need her/its/their sleep, but they need her/its/their daddy more.

I would not place my children as it to the bed early. Eight o\'clock wäre the most earliest, if the twins are in the school. One Mshe/it would be ready for the bed öglichkeit to have, but if daddy gets home, that he/it gets, to ask her/it/them about her/its/their day and to read them a few stories. He/it can then put her/it/them in it and the by-product is, thereß he/it his/its children nearer grows, and you get a little one of a break. The credit even 20 to 30 minutes only of daddy time wäre very useful.

If you can try to obtain to be a little flexible one within your sturtured, you come back, it also would be good for you.

Knows well here I, that maybe you think, am myself at home the whole day, during my husband from it is the money to be brought in in order to support us everything but please doesn\'t think this. You/they, I am sure, you have a much härtere work, and you mold the life of 4 individuals in order to be soon five. , Thereß, my honored one, is the most important work in the world. It is Zähe work. Erwägen you please, your husband on his/its children hereinzulassen\'s-Abende. maybe he/it is very glad, thereß you she/it in the bed has, so that he/it can eat, and chills out. But, honored, he/it, that is won, \'t is very glad thereover, you defeat the street ten or fifteen years. His/its children now need him/it seven days per week, not only on the weekends and without to recognize it robs you together him/it and the children from precious minutes.

One last thought:
You/they will need more help if your baby comes. Maybe you/they do already this and I betted, thereß you is. Form a schedule für tiresome work, that you will free a little one and will make her/it/them for a manner, that they won\'t cause any arguments against the children. My example is here:

We have four pets and tended there to be a little one of arguing, as my eldest was asked to let out the dogs, feed, you weep and so on
I typed on a schedule on a calendar, from which I could print. A day child A wäre for letting out of the dogs, feeding and weeping, and some other matters, responsible. But this child had the first election of a Tvprogramm or a game after we had finished homeschooling. DerDer nächste day, if it is flicked to the other. It reduced frustration on my part, and arguing hörte on.

I have the feeling, you are Superwoman and take the trouble to do everything. If that is the case, you cut yourself any relaxed part. You/they rest if your children rest. Her/its/their pregnancy demands from you, f,ür itself, to provide. If you let go something müssen, and the house is a little messy, it will still be for you there to be done if you are not in these early years of your children, s-Leben. if others to help offer, you please leave her/it/them. If they then present themselves, I am sure, thereß she/it really wants to help out. It is okay not to do everything. Maybe you/they don\'t make it to your vollständigen satisfaction but left her/it/them do it. It becomes used Gef she/itühl makes.

I hold better. I ramble on it and on. God blesses you and your family. I weiß, that you will do what is right and best for your children.

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Thanks. This was heavily, but I take you right an\'wieder a bißchen. You/they look up fully him/it with the weekend, but not much während the week.
He/it so now comes home with approximately 7.30, that he/it will read to the twins, while I cook. Tobias and Isla are a bißchen young, to remain on this late one, but in a few years..

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from B Meine 3 & 4 years old goes you to the bed on the weekdays with 9. With 9 and the 3-J are the 4 years oldährigen in the school and the retinues upward, will go this coming school year, so that we have him/it on the same schedule. This way, that they get 12 hours of sleep. You/they also take während the day\'s a 1-1 1/2 hour of nap. On weekends ließen we she/it remains no later up to 10, however. If he/it going in to kindergarten becomes her/its/their schedules until over a hour is adjusted, must, so that they can get enough sleep.

beside Mysty Shores at the moment actually over the same time except if the baby has gas, she/it later goes to the bed. Hope mir\'m, the für a bad night not my self positions, but if she/it remains, it is normally not later than ten. Otherwise, Morgan\'s 3ish and she/it go with the Sp with 7:30, 8:30ätestesten, to the bed. Hängt on it from, what time she/it had ner-Schläfchen.

from glad i believes you, that you have a good schedule, or if it was more useful to you, you could jump everything on 15-20 minutes and then, you left which i telephone call mommy times times a small silence, before your husband came home, for itself your pregnancy.that to loosen and to enjoy.

Luck and congrats on your new addition!

from Luna, my 6 year old son, Shane, takes his/its bath with 7:45, goes to the bed upward with 8:00, and books, traction pictures, can read or something calms down until 8:20, that are, if lights are out.

from my baby girl, no baby is anymo... I has old a 5 year on it. He/it is at 730 lights with 8 in the bed out

Did, you really say "during"

from Katie, I believe that it is totally dependent on that, what needs you and your children,
i has a newborn, Cassie and a 18month old, Lily,

Tea begins with 5 for everyone and finishes by 6
Lily has a bath by 6-6:30
then, she/it comes down the stairway for it in one, you cuddle with daddy after he/it returned from the work (by 7:00),
she/it sits in her/its/their bed while a history read to her i until 7:20ish,
and then, she/it will press i in it, sits you for a few minutes with her and then goes you
Cassie will fall asleep in her/its/their Moses moses-Korb down the stairway, every duration of 6:00 and 9:00 and us leaves her/it/them in there until we go to the bed, by 11-12:00, if we bring her/it/them to her/its/their child\'s bed upward,

Katie
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from Sweetpea, a pea has in the pod! My fünf months old catches at gotten, you wound with 7 pm down.\', he/it Schläfchen from 1 to 4, therefore this isn\'t late quiet I him/it, you place him/it in jammies, you wind him/it, and you read books about him/it with a blunt lamp loudly on. We read großen books like Harry Töpfer also, and he/it seems to like she/it. After a chapter or two, if it still awakens it, I amount the lamp and him/it some songs. He/it has favorite songs and caresses my hand, w,ährend I she/it sings. I caress his/its forehead with a finger, w,ährend I singte. Then, I put down him/it, and he/it schläft until approximately 1. I füttere him/it, and then, he/it sleeps until 4, and then until 8.

through rcullen1.... my children are 9 and 5. Our nächtliche routine is the dinner to be eaten as a family with 530-6.
Not much happens between 6 and 8. I have 2 Noutlaw per week class of approximately 645-730, my husband has the other 2 nights class of week and comes doesn\'t home until 730.
The 5 years old gets, PJ is switched on and cleans teeth between 730-745 and is in the bed by 8.
The 9 years old gets, PJ is switched on and cleans teeth by 8 and is in the bed by 830.
You/they know, what is the best for your children, and each family must do her/its/their own routine. It sounds like you, you have a perfect routine. But if you itself fühlen, you need to change it, you then trouble it. If doesn\'t works, then veralter it back.

from Dr. J Wenn your routine works for you then his/its good. Routines are, you assume, für you and your children, to be, so that you can be organized my routine more, and again works it for me, so that I organized can remain. I have a 2.5 year old son, John Jr., a 18 mos. old daughter, Naomi and a 4 month old son, Ethan.

5:30, we all eat the dinner, mommy,daddy and children,
6:00 - 6:30 (Ethan(4mos.) take his/its Katzenschläfchen, and John bathes Naomi and John Jr.
Stories read 7:00 - 8:00, wind along time, you play games and Wachtv, while cuddling,
8:30, John Jr. go to the bed
9:00, Ethan and Naomi go to the bed

Hope I, that is helped! Dr. J