What, if something, should I tell my friend, that gave only birth to twins and wants to nurse?

Consent, I have a 9 month alto that I still nurse happily. I befürworte and support, that nurses. This often becomes have say said I people, thereß I me felt, that it has me done couldn\'t, if I didn\'t remain at home with him/it, I has pump difficulties, or if I had had twins. Or if I single rooms and didn wsupport has äre, \'t. It was sufficiently difficult as it was. So, I place everyone, that doesn\'t nurse, auf\'t-Richter.

Now, my friend bore only 2 days ago with 36 weeks of twins. They are technical premature, but they are the same Größe, as my son was, my son was small with 39 weeks, and only a from them (the boy) has all problems with it to suck and to swallow, but he/it is not only not big \'s on a feeding tube, that he/it brings to one bottle, him/it, the girl takes the bottle big on that occasion and also you improve with care as my son first did.

AberAber both twins is fed Similac in the hospital mostly "until her/its/their milk enters." Again is she/it technically preemie, but the girl is like one completely more normally full of concept baby, and the boy has only the easiest Schwierigkeiten-Fütterung... doesn\'t want to remain you, snapped... still did my son, but he/it was no preemie.

What the pediatrician informed me of it, as I gave, birth was that fed outdoors at all nascent my son 2 weeks long just would survive, so that I didn\'t have to worry approximately, if he/it got enough, and you let him/it only worked as a nurse every time if he/it had even hunger keywords before my "milk entered." Also should come do my milk the contact in faster. I asked the nurses not to give any formula to my child.

I have also a friend, that nurses her/its/their daughter, that was carried one week earlier than these twins and was the same size, and had to her/it/them, her/its/their daughter formula doesn\'t feed.

Want I not to give any undesirable advice to my friend or seem like me, she/it judges, or anything and I are whose idea, that was the formula, not certainly, doctors, nurses, grandmothers or mommies... the grandmothers, to want those babies fully from formula, however, seemed pumps, but I, that am surprised, if I should inform her/it/them of this, my doctor informed me of it what, so that she/it can ask her/its/their doctor at least about it?

She/it wants one material, that diapers mommies, from those, babywearing, I do material diapers not even, but I am worried, thereß these babies, who have one bottle, and formula maybe her/its/their chances of nursing in disorder brings. Now sorer I me if alot these people, who say, you "Milk never entered, is people, who began away, in" however enough milk with formula "until their milk came, you never enter because they were not suckled. , I weiß, that milk enters into one of both manner, but I also know, there are a supply and a demand matter, that go on,

Do I not understand either, why, if the girl is big with care, she/it doesn\'t nurse but one bottle takes? Maybe my friend really decided to give up nursing, that finely I with it wäre and would support, because I think couldn, twins nurse \'t, but I know, that they decided her/its/their heart on it had, and I only am surprised if

1. This formula, that itself ernährt, she/it will possibly change in one of those, disappointed people, who wanted to nurse, but didn\'t "can", and she/it will take the trouble to late build a supply.

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2. If that is true, I should everything thereover says or only my mouth complete holds? I am not middle, thereß I only nursing in order to work out for her/it/them wants, if thats what she/it wants.

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my child\'s doctor told me that for weeks over the survival after birth... he/it said, that they were born with enough liquid, about for a few weeks before the absolutely, to survive, is fed,

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O.K.. * breaks Fingerknöchel * MY twinnies is 8 months old, born at all with 37 weeks with no questions. You/they also are #s 6 and 7 in the baby chain here. I nursed all my babies. BUT the twins were a whole new ballgame. You/they didn\'t really really learns, für over one month on, to snap, so I would pump, we branch of the ameda one of the hospital, so that i pump could double, and they brought soley breast milk in bottles, but also worked again i, as they were three weeks old, so that had to pump i anyway. My problem was, although she/it could work together i as a nurse, and it was verr as devilsückt that should be used to it.. had to place both in football grips, and did with it, as i was at home, pumped with the work and got approximately 12 ounces every time, every two hours, my milk dried up with three months. I tried EVERYTHING. took reglan, food put in, drank like a camel, it was lächerlich. therefore the single matter, that I inform your friend of it, würde, the best is to be done, that she/it can. if she/it can IF she/it can. I never had a problem with my others. Don\'t weiß, that this time happened waht. Sometimes is only not in the cards.

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through? ?????????? &??????... Had two sentences of the twins my auntie and nursed, both place. However, this was before ungefähr 30 years, the settled matter probably therefore was at the moment. It is möglich, but if sie\'wieder it to now have bottles, no favor does.

You/they probably should not say anything, only you are there if she/it needs you. I, which you say, kann\'t believes könnten that would not cause any problems with your friendship. Glück to her!

must grasp you at Lyndsey those babies on the breast. If they are not sie\'wieder on the breast, because they is given formula, and her/its/their Br moveüste not at, to do milk. If she/it can, she/it gets \'t on the breast, then, she/it often should pump.

It is totally possible to nurse twins, but it will require much actual care or pumping from time. Most women become for him/it f enough milk of starting anywayür twin int does, they only defeat, you regulate to her/its/their singleton\'s needs, as time goes through it.

from j me was said, that the attempts were good when nursing, so that my daughter could get the colostrum, and my body would let down the milk.

However, you/they said that, if she/it didn\'t live, she/it one bottle would need.

Where did you hear this, that a baby can survive TWO WEEKS, without becoming fed? That is lächerlich!!! some hours, yes, not WEEKS!

through jen, you could only say, "I white that is b\'feeding important for you, but I remind to have read me at it that with your milk supply, that to give formula, can eat. If they recommended, thereß you this does?" or something like this and goes from there. The babies should get her/its/their colostrum. The hospital becomes an electric breast pump to the Verfit puts ügung so that she/it can give colostrum, and then breastmilk to her/its/their babies. She/it certainly is you hasnhowever, her/its/their opinion altered \'t?

from mom snell asks you she/it, whether she/it is still spoken with a lactation advisor. Maybe the LC could help her/it/them comming milk in questions and formula situation with him/it.


Does the hospital have also a pump, that she/it "rent", for itself or something, so that can pump her/it/them and softness of the babies colustrum? , To only put down the thought of it maybe, the pumping Proze, To begin ß, helps maybe, ich\'m certainly not, however!

by yellow B Den hospitals, much money is paid to immediately put babies on formula. What they do, muß, those babies are put on her/it/them and start to live. That is what will bring in her/its/their milk. Singles are considered premie with 36 weeks that twins are not. You/they are looked at full concept and do a bad service the hospital you, in that she/it them formula füttert, if they must have the colostrum, that she/it produces. You/they doesn\'t muß are disappointed. She/it needs her/its/their babies, and she/it muß start to feed her/it/them. She/it will be more than completely fähig. Körper places auf\'t twins produce and then say, "well I can only a from them", that we will do, to nurture each baby, whom we produce, feeds and, to feed.

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through? do you love? My baby become ask 35 wks and me to give formula before my milk entered because she/it first had difficulties of upholding of her/its/their sugar levels. There was a medical reason dafür that and if they could not let wasn\'t over 5 pounds come back her/its/their going she/it, so that I didn\'t want, that she/it loses every weight, BUT I did the election, that I would fill feed, AFTER I had nursed her/it/them, so much as well as I could. SieSie was badly dafür, to take even one bottle, so that I used the LC for my advantage with the hospital. It was not für this woman, whom maybe I don\'t nurse, been because it was difficult, but I was resolved and if she/it really then wants to nurse, she/it becomes likely. At least ask her/it/them to pump, so much as well as she/it every hour and a Hälfte conserves. Es\'ll makes her/it/them for supply, you come größer in, and she/it will need the special milk.

through mystic_e... 1. The bottles cause snapping problems and the ergthe demand reduces änzen and can her/it/them, ever one full milk supply, hinders even enough for one to have let alone two babies,

2. Yes you should say something, but more than, thereß you she/it in contact with a real lactation advisor UND a la leche-Verband must come, so that she/it can really not get the help, that needs her/it/them, and not only from you, no offense you, however, to probably hear it you you with all other nut works about her/it/them with "medical degrees")

Colostrum is so important for preemies, that doesn\'t get from mommy the full quantity from antibodies. You/they are einschlie also for more too serious side-effects of formulaßlich NEC in danger.


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Say something.

Why did she/it not begin from nursing? You/they muß JETZT begin. There are such matters like Schüsse, in order to help your milk production. ICH\'ve hörte for adoptive mothers works from them, so I cannot believe why they would not work for her/it/them. Encourage her/it/them, with which to speak lactation specialists with her/its/their hospital, and also to her/its/their doctor. This muß TODAY are done or es\'s that goes, to be this much harder.

through cottonli.... if she/it wants to nurse, it will work out. Then können you her/it/them a lifespan supply of the advice gives. I wouldn\'t fängt at, to preach over nursing to her, except if she/it brought the topic first up. If she/it wants to be from those people in one, they to formula shift, before she/it glätten, you trouble breast milk, that, \'s her/its/their election. Sie\'wieder right in the not wanting judgmental is. If she/it ausschließlich formula comes up, the two babies this feeds, \'s only also punishes. Many expectant mommies say Y sie\'wieder going, X, & Z, to do, but if the baby(ies, you come, the reality starts...

Each woman is different, but she/it won\'t dry up during the night, or even in one week. AuchAuch if them formula in the hospital gefit becomes üttert, she/it can still nurse the babies. This can help to form a good bond between mommy and babies to encourage strong drinking and the let down auszuleyelets. And es\'s been my experience, thereß hospitals formula for you pushes. Even if of Sie\'wieder to nurse going, they give you all these coupons, and formula tries. My in December and she/it even asked nobody of delivered sister, whether she/it breast or form elfütterung would be, they assumed the last automatically.

through mama2znc, I believe that you must ask her/it/them. I think that you want her/it/them and this lowermostützen\'s wonderfully, but you know which decision to support, right, not? She/it wants ouchßer isn stillen\'t, which decision did she/it therefore make?

She/it must nurse it EARLY AND OFTEN must get, justified. Bottles are the wrong election, IMO. You/they können it difficult does, but they place auf\'t has her/its/their chances to completely downfall. It hängt from it from, as devoted is she/it and how much help and support, that she/it has.

With twins particularly, it is economically stupid to buy formula... we speaks THOUSAND! About not too erwähnen that the health factor and how much asthma meds for two, or allergy meds for two, or simply simple old medical visits would cost for two.

Obviously, there is to nurse reasons for her/it/them, but if she/it didn\'t commit no ai for him/it, happens gonna. Nursing normally happened not only... it muß are taught and learned. I think, thereß you must find out, where her/its/their heart is and then she/it on the best things backed, you can.

through Nate & Ryan\'s mommy, I believe that you should tell her/it/them. As your friend, she/it, \'ll schetch you the effort to help her. But as soon as you share the information with her, you certainly are not, she/it thereover, to bug, and aufzusetzen\'t-Marke she/it feels be her/its/their decision for itself approximately bad which.

GutGut of Tiffanie fills similac I fed in the hospital and changed to breast milk at home and didn\'t have any problems with supply or bringing of him/it to take the breast milk instead of the formula.