To be a youth mommy is wonderful, not a ruined life?

I am 13, and I has be old twin daughters, Alexis and Juliana, myself homeschooling last school year 4 months and this year ich\'m homeschooling therefore could grow up again a small one the girls, before I leave somebody for half differently to them one day. My mother lost a long history care (it) \'s, and I live with my 2 best friends - 23yo Becky and 28yo Jake, and Jake\'s 19 months does old daughter Schwatzhaft, Jake and Becky the whole day and mich\'m with the 3 children the whole day. Während day, besides which meal and the potty, I so often put the twins on the potty, as they have go, and Gaby goes to her/its/their potty, if she/it needs, we play a quantity in order to play more than the twins with the girls, particularly with Gabby, who are sufficiently old. We go out, I bring the twins Schwatzhaft into the baby carriage and the Griff\'s-Hand, she/it normally goes beside me, sometimes, my friend with me comes, takes is almost 5yo brothers and we go to the park. MeinMein friend and I have the whole time w in the worldährend, of course we keep an eye on the children and the game with them if they are bored together, (it), the gamble, \'s rarely has her/it/them fun together, the brother of my Bf\'s likes to take Gabby and goes to other places, and she/it follows him/it, in the evening (with 18:00), Jake and Becky come home, they work together, and both of them or one of them take care of the children and bring me to going and have fun with friends. I go out and come in 3 hours, normally with 9pm (me), theück\'m that still nurses in the evening, to nurse the twins simply promptly, and placed this to sleep. Während I ausgehte, I have fun, and my friends and I make so much tings. I place auf\'t-Fund, that a teenager as only boys, the shopping center and stupid conversations over nothing dear is. Das\'s probably, why all my friends older is, but I don\'t care. I Hafen\'t been Räuber any childhood or teens or everything. The being a youth mommy doesn\'t ruins my life or something like it. My life verchanged besides didn\'t-Untergang, it became even better and dear. Now, I place auf\'t remembered at my life and I without the twins believes, thereß this life, that I have, now way me, that am had before, better than the one is. Das\'s my question, why, people believe, does you thereß a parent, who is, in your teens, ALWAYS your life ruins? Eses does \'s Spa, To say ß, that to have a boy, your life ruins, and, to have only a girl, is the way, that it must be. But, to have a boy, your life makes different, ruined or something not. Das\'s why my life is not ruined, only verchanged, and I like this alteration. Es\'s wonderful! Many parents place auf\'t recognizes, like glücklich she/it her/its/their children should have, and I recognize this. Why to have a baby in your teens muß Ihr lives ruin? Why you it denken,mag \'s this with all the Mad little? Maybe würde a baby many girls ruins\' lives a baby, however, also the life of wonderful many girls would do. Das\'s my question, why do you stereotype?

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O.K. i was not as young as you maybe, as i became pregnant, but i was 17 and i loves, because he/it is a mother, and agrees completely with you. and i-Jargon believes, like some people thereover so stupid is. i-Mitte this, which there the devil you talkinover is, is illegal, however at home a 13 y/o to leave. sorrowfully, but i was left in this age. and the most everyone, that i knows, also was. i doubts highly, thereß everyone ever for it in difficulties is advised, a 13 y/o, to leave hold alone, that is so negative. but honey vergißt she/it un proud of you. at least you confessed aufw to your responsibilitiesärts one, if even many adults know dont, as that is to be done. well für you! show to him/it world thats his/its möglichen, in order to even do big matters in a young age with children. and i rät, that people never have heard about taxis or public transportation in order to get around because i middle kindliness seems a way doesnt to bring those children to the doctor to be. uh O.K.. said more similarly i is, makes of property and pulls up those children!

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Thanks! I am glad, thereß somebody can understand. The others grew up only children of the Hafen\'t.

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not from a sweetie, why do you not get any education and a work before you think about increasing? Oder was the animal instinct and baby bonus also much of an enticement für you?

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through vimesfan.... It is no stereotype.

It is the truth. It is only fact.

a good life has 1 from 10,000.

That is not sufficiently good.

You/they are only a child themselves. You/they place auf\'t understands.

through bludger1, some people can cope, and some people don\'t can. You/they are gl with the factücklich, that you are with the alteration of order, is not others.

from Archie, bunker is That a young age to have an outworn snapper.

from James if support then has you didnt, you are creek sh on it without a paddle.

through?... I doesn\'t stereotype. Good, thereß you postive to this stuff is.

But if not the friends, where you now would be?


Furthermore, with the not effort, you, to make feeling guilty, but what do you make for her/it/them? Chatty and Jake?

Also I never said that it ALWAYS ruins your life. But do you know how many teens die in the work? Draw lots. because they are undeveloped, and her/its/their Körper can, it endures \'t.

We stereotype because of the truth, if the prego-Jugendjahre support of the parents and the friends, they probably would commit a suicide, would not have.


Lol, you deem yourself very happily that you don\'t live in Poland. A fourteen year old one Mad little became pregnant, and she/it be many people in newspapers, because the nurses were religious in the hospital, in Poland, and an abortion wants to give to her/it/them didn\'t, she/it wanted it, because she/it was thrashed and was tyrannized at schools, teacher treated her/it/them and stuff badly, was clever besides her and knew that she/it is not ready for the baby. The nurses called them/her/it local church at, and then, all religious grandmas, nuns and little other Catholic authority awakened from the unconsciousness you pray and get you the devil from her out, she/it, although she/it is possesed. So läuft she/it away, and drove to Germany, where the grandmas followed her/it/them. But she/it succeeded in getting in last in an abortion. She/it poured out the boy of a rape at her/it, how each wasn knows, \'t. all her/its/their friends and the diary say unequivocally, thereß she/it one wanted.


Therefore yes, only you are damn glad that you are there, not there.

you and not I are through Sweet_Kisses xoxo gladly

through washingt... it doesnt-Untergang it makes it harder.. and this in this age a baby wants? and this topic is boring and somethin i, really provides ungef for itself dontähr with it un gone..................... and u still a child urself

from S. Mommy It, it is wonderful that you have a good outlook on your situation. I keep much people gaze it, like ruining your life, in mind, because above it your childhood on your Körper removes, not ready is to be had a baby with so young and could from settled unseen harming to your body. I thought over riding my bicycle and the arrival home, about my favorite TV with 13, to look at, programs after. I had only a baby, and am 22 i, i fühlt itself still that is i too young, how i would become from it, liked to it, had more money and been from college. My sister had a baby with 16, and her/its/their didn\'t thinks i believes, thereß it her/its/their life ruined, until she/it became an adult, and recognized, that she/it never was grown so "", as she/it believed, that she/it was. Now bemüht she/it lost with 28 for itself "years" to get back those, and her/its/their daughter must pay for it. I think part of the reason why you believe, thereß it is, is O.K., because this of all, which you know at the moment, is. If you become, and arises könnten you only your outlook on what you think, changes that it did to your life. My sister got a college degree and never did at home, you train, but it nevertheless was rough.

through ich-wa, that is good, that you made the best for it. Most people find it very difficult and near unmöglich, to juggle the school and the babies, particularly, if they are so young. If it is only 3 teenagers in a house, that twins pull up, how even make you homeschool? And how do you buy meal? And how do you come to the doctor or emergency rooms if you have twins a fever? I can see nur\'t, thereß situation, that works out long concept. Actually also can see your boyfried ich\'t with 13 your \'one is and only\'. maybe I stereotype. I assume, thereß I is. I can nur\'t places itself before the being 13 and a baby\'s pulling up without family and adults. But it is good, thereß you a good attitude has, and that you make the best for it. I can nur\'t winds my mind about twins with a 13 year old mother one, that is pulled up in a house of the teenagers.

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Process.... you deem yourself very happily. I have with friends, that your rent and your softness für on therefore much of her/its/their life freely, to help another friend, would pay to pull up her/its/their babies, from any teenagers doesn\'t belong. Those are some astonishing friends. Only, you make another plan für support, if they decide to stop, to support you and to help you with your babies and to decide, her/its/their teenager years, to live carefree. Do f only on planür all cases a back.

Process... to the impolite answer on a taxpayer... feels you no blame. It is too spät and sometimes, we need government help while we do a life plan if the unexpected happens. Maybe this answerer finds one day itself without a work, or retirement money has gone carry from anyödie from the work. Sometimes, life happens and married people, individual people with no children, those in Unfällen or with houses the burned along need government help for a while, while they do a new life plan. It is f hereür blame too late. I place wei auf\'tß, why individual mommy is singled out for this stereotype, if the daddies, who ran, get you no stereotypes during pregnant, as they tell nobody, that they had even a child. I am one single mommy and used the chimney bank once after a car accident and was switched on, lieAccording to ß and accommodated for less than one year, as my child was born, while I did a new life plan. I now pay my own way für everything and paid my taxes like everyone others. Ignore this blame trip

Process some again to the answer under mine. In order to go to the doctor, taxis and buses cost money. Where do you get this money from it, if you meal and rent and diapers, has and so on?

from K I M B E R L Y. is not shocking that still is a 13 year old pregnant to me.
his/its so sad one nowadays now. in your age, you still should spongebob and he/it look at everything. but life happens. I dont thinks youre that goes, to have a bad life. You/they mußten only fast grow up. But you become, a teenager life never had. You/they will never know whats be you gladly in 13-21. only think, you lived gotten you this excitement of your candy 16, if you turn 18, if you turn you in 21, goes out jargon and party, because you have 2 children, and maybe even these other types joke. but life happens if you make it to this way. it can also make also your life wonderful, only hängt from. Glück:]

through smelly! I never believed, thereß it the parent, \'s-Leben, ruins it her/its/their life does more roughly, it does in every age. In all youth pregnancy situations is I more anxiously about the children, who were born in it. I place auf\'t sees, how a young teenager is equipped, financially / maturities / relationship / driver license!, to be a parent. If she/it is not resembling evey-Teenager, but a baby is better in most situations from it, to somebody, older, to be carried,

through stacki-Guten on you hun his/its big one you enjoys everything for him/it.. i agrees... i is 22 and has a boy old 3 months... i had my hubby is him/it, as i was in 21, also the same age; we have a mortgage and now were married over one year, and we also love it... i believes people - "judges", because they cannot introduce themselves, she/it the same situation in what would do,... and all believe that what they, the "right" way, do, to do matters, is. and there is not any right or wrong way to make matters for lives; this being said, thereß i dont white, i 13 with what did,..., but i white that never been able to cope i with all, you, it sounds like you, is... particularly twins... something like this changs your life eternally his/its amazin.. we loves our lil-Jungen so much so well settled from me and my hubby!!

from halo, I believe, that you have a fantastic attitude to it to be a youth mommy, and you sound like you, makes really good in a difficult situation, again, you support from your own mommy, and with having twins also!

IchIch believes that comes a lot of stereotyping of those, that are older, as how much life changes I into mine early 30, the knowledge, in those early years anyway, and how much of an effect have your 20 unit teens/early later on that, what you finish, to do with your life. Not all youth parents have an attitude like yours, many m,ühen she/it itself from, to get through it, and later struggles to make some Karrieren-weise for itself, and is capable, self, to be enough, to must without itself on others, leave.

So I believe that many people\'s attitudes to youth mommies of worries about opportunities, that are lost in sense on your OWN-Entwicklung, come.

Undoubtedly there are ways, that you will develop, that your peers don\'t become, who don\'t have any children., but they have also many advantages againstover you, through the not having to responsible for the life from others is.

Continue with your big attitude, there is not any way, that I the being a youth mommy let alone the being, so young, been able to cope as it are you, and with twins also!

from Charlotte Louise, I am glad to know, that the single teenager is not a youth mommy i mom(im in order to be believes, this, because he/it is a youth mommy, will amaze!!!! I hates it if Leute-Stereotyp. I think, thereß a baby, who won, \'t ruins your life, except if you want it to it.

16 and 20 weeks 3 days pregnant with twins!! = D

Be successful with the twins!! =)

durchdurch * Elli \'s mommy * I doesn\'t believe, that it ruins lives, but it depends on the girl on it as she/it will handle it. Some run Mad little and gets an abortion, that out police officer according to my opinion. If you will have sex, m,üssen you ready for the responsibilities is. I believe, thereß you a big work does, because you age. It looks like you, is sufficiently ripe, about which Z, to handle ähe situation, and makes good. I applaude you because there aren\'t, that many young Mlike little ad you. Glückwunsche to your twins. I kann\'t, to come on my baby, waits.

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through * Banana * you breaks THE LAW! You/they still are a baby itself and it because you are left in a house alone in silence all the day, s illegally für any adult, that left behind a child unsupervised. Yes, you have your own children, but you können legal\'t is in the house alone with them the whole day. Grown up not so you now are? Es\'s-Guter is you gladly, however. Only you are careful because you are taken k in worryönnten, if you continue to be unsupervised, and maybe those adults, with which you live, procure a prison sentence for leaving you. The würde also upward little chatty screws. According to my opinion, you are not ready for a child, until you legally wählen can and financial stable is.

from George, I believe that it is wonderful how you feel, and while I agree not so young with having children, that I believe, that you are very brave. But Sie\'wieder still a baby itself, and it actually is against the law, the whole day your old alone somebody, to leave in a house, let alone itself about more babies too kümmern. You/they müssen a babysitter or one proved adults, to also take care of you, brings. And guarantee, thereß you your children any form of the sex ed. gives,

until October bride? Während day, besides which meal and the potty, I so often put the twins on the potty, as they have go, and Gaby goes to her/its/their potty if she/it needs,

why do you favor the potty VERY UNCERTAINLY 4 months old!?... you sounds like you, do you have a big life and everything, but maybe you must take a parenting-Klasse or 3. You/they place auf\'t, it now sees, but if your 20 or 25 will recognize you. How much did you meet with it beside it out. ICH\'m gladly still have you time für your friends and your going out. But the gewann\'t lasts eternally. As soon as you me ungefähr 16 beat, \'m sure won\'t want your friends (Jake) and Becky therefore, for everything for you and, to pay your 2 children. I can extremelyählen, that you still are young, and unripe besides it, to have 2 children. I give to you the whole blessing daf in the worldür, to keep your babies in your age, I couldn\'t has it done, but at the same time, I waited to have sex. I am correct over the tax in agreement, payers finish his/its people like you, why people like I do 2 jobs, go you to the school. And können you always noch\'t affords itself the ring wedding / and any day jokes that they want.