Nursing of a 14 months old O.K.?

my brother and his/its wife are here, and they have old girl a 14 month. She/it still nurses, and it is wierd with it to me. Thier-Tochter goes and everything. I am a mother of 4 children, daughter, that only 6, son ages 4 and same Zwillingsm,ad little ages 2 turned, therefore I am a completely experienced mommy. But her/its/their small one Mad little seems to old, and she/it grasps with your boobs every time if you hold her/it/them. Around, it only makes her/it/them unpleasant to be; I hate to say. I am the single there, that feels this,ß the child to old is???

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O.K. i does it sorry, but you are all strangely! It simply is not right. Come. What gets you freely with it? My I, a going talking CHILD, who sucks on your breast? His/its injustice!!!! I hörte on, to nurse my children with 9 months. The child is adjusted socially not well! That is BS!!!! you ahßt each other the stop of her, and she/it wants to grasp only with boobs and massages her/it/them with her/its/their hands!!! being of nauseating. I don\'t become bem myselfühen and somebody tells, as her/its/their child is to be pulled up, therefore I, that is won, this mentions \'t according to law about my sister, but it is wrong! This obviously is a case of the norm, that is not right. I believe, thereß you all seriously sick is. Sad.

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The way looks at it I, you wouldnt does she/it therefore need breast milk for what gives a formula old 14 months??? UNREFINED! It probably is M more sooner than thisad little of a comfort for the mommy. Maybe you should tell the mommy something, if the young Mad, little with your breast grasps. She/it really needs her/it/them for ween from it away......

I meet a wife, whom they nursed 2 YEARS OLD. The young Mad little could her/its/their mommy machen\'s-BH declining. now this is sick!

Asker \'s Comment:: directly on chickadee! Exactly that, what I said!!!! you makes it only für comfort! Ernährungsmäßig NOTHING AT ALL getting!!!! indeed eats her/it/them like a HORSE, real meal, that I think. So, I doubt, thereß her/its/their mommy very much milk has left! Women müssen for it, to do this, is shot. Nauseating! Immorally. Indelicately!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Mommy to Casidee, that works as a nurse, and un from America

from the InGLeSH MaYJuR hello dont wants, that she/it grows up with allergies, or cancer makes ya?!

through goh_gera.... any people brestfeed her/its/their child develops the age of 2, so I don\'t believe that is 14 months too old. It is the way as they train the child. It doesn\'t have anything to do here with nursing...... intends you theück.

it is natural for Terrible Threes. Do you have four children? What fütterten you them? Could that be there from where your opinion comes? You/they fühlen itself, that a little one judges because you have \'t didnließ your babies all the mom milk, that she/it wanted, until they were done?

Read about it here as it is of use to mother and child in order to work as a nurse AT LEAST for the first 2 years.

from Naturewa.... it is no yoo old. Don\'t rejects it or brings her/it/them to it, itself uncomfortably too fühlen. Mama\'s-Milch is the best matter für she/it. You/they doesn\'t thinks ouchßer of the nearest chimney source at boobs as everything. Es\'s-Unschuldiger. you dismiss it with a laughter.

from Scarlett Hussein, dirty liberal is not you the single, that feel this way, but many people don\'t agree with you, including the WHO. I wäre the first year well passed gone, if my daughter had allowed it. Unfortunately entwöhnte she/it itself earlier than I, he/it is expected.

Nursing toddlers profit NUTRITIONALLY

* Although there was little research, that is done on children, that beyond the age of two quiet ones, the available information, that nursing continues, shows a valuable source of nutrition and illness protection for, to be as it, you yearn, like nursing continues.

* "Human milk, that is expressed by mothers, who were lactating, >1 years long, increased fat and energy content significantly, that are compared with milk, that is expressed by women, who were lactating for shorter periods. Wfor ährendWährend prolonged lactation, the fat energy contribution of the breast milk to the infant food could be significant."
, Almond 2005

* Breast milk continues to prepare considerable quantities of main nutrients well beyond the first year of life, particularly protein, fat and most vitamins."
, Dewey 2001

* In the second year, 12-23 months, 448 mL of breastmilk provides:
o 29 percent of energy requests
o 43 percent of protein requests
o 36 percent of calcium requests
o 75 percent of vitamin a standard
o 76 percent of folate-Anforderungen
o 94 percent of Vitamin-B12-Anforderungen
o 60 percent of Vitamin-C-Anforderungen
, Dewey 2001

* In rural Bangladesh of done studies showed that continues breastmilk to be an important source of the vitamin, in un the second and third year of living.
, Persson 1998

* It is not uncommon for disaccustoming the few solid in order to be recommended for toddlers eats. But this recommendation doesn\'t become lowermost from researchützt. According to Sally Kneidel into working "Beyond one year" (newcomers beginnings, Vol,) as a nurse. 6 No.s 4, the July August 1990, pp. 99-103,:

Maybe some doctors feel that care will interfere with a child\'s appetite at other meal. However, there was not more probably any documentation, that nursing children are, as entwöhnte children, to reject about additional meal. In the action, most researchers in third Weltl,alters where maybe a malnourished-Kleinkind\'s-Appetit is from critical importance, you recommend continued silence malnourished even this for it serious, Briend et al, 1988,; Rhode 1988; Shattock and Stephen, 1975,; Whitehead (1985). you propose the most, the malnourished older nursing child not through disaccustoming however the mother\'s supplementing to helfen\'s does a diet, about the nutritional quality of her/its/their milk, ancestor and MacLean to improve. 1980; Jelliffe and Jelliffe (1978) and through offering the child more diverse and more palatable meal, to improve itself/themselves, is or her/its/their appetite (Rohde) 1988); Tangier man 1988; Underwood (1985).

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Nursing toddlers less OFTEN are SICK

* The American academy of the family Physicians notices that disaccustomed children full age two in elevated danger of the illness (AAFP 2001) is.

* Nursing toddlers between the ages of 16 and 30 months, to have less illnesses and illnesses of shorter duration, was found as her/its/their not-nursing peers (Gulick 1986).

* "Antibodies is luxuriant in human milk throughout lactation" (nutrition with lactation 1991); p. 134, indeed, some of the immune factors in breastmilk-Erhöhung at concentration during the second year and also during the disaccustoming process. , Goldman 1983, Goldman, & Goldblum 1983, institute of medicine 1991.

* Pro could prevent the Worldhealthorganisation "a modest increase in nursing installments up to 10 percent of all deaths of the children under five: Nursing of games an important matter and role underrated sometimes in the treatment and the prevention of the childhood illness." [Emphasis added]

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Nursing toddlers have LESS ALLERGIES

* Many studies showed that one of the best ways to prevent allergies, and asthma is to be nursed exclusively for at least 6 months and to continue to be nursed after this point long-term.

Nursing can is helpful for preventing allergy through it:
1. Abandonment of potential allergens reduces, the more deceased baby is exposed, ever less likely, thereß it an allergic reaction will give,
2. accelerating of ripening of the schützenden intestinal obstacle for Baby\'s-Darm,
3. the trick of the intestine and preparing of an obstacle für potentially allergenic-Moleküle,
4. the places of entzündungshemmenden qualities to the disposal, that reduces the risk of the infections (that can deal), as allergy triggers.

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Nursing toddlers are CLEVER

* Extensive research in the relationship between cognitive performance (IQ-Spielergebnisse) steps in the school, and nursing showed the biggest profits, because those children nursed the longest.

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Nursing toddlers are adjusted SOCIALLY WELL

* Granting in it to Sally Kneidel, "hereafter one year", to work newcomers beginnings, Vol, as a nurse. 6 No.s 4, the July August 1990, pp. 99-103,:

Research reports about the psychological aspects of the care are scarce. One, the study, that ausdrit negotiated ücklich with babies as nurse, longer than one year a significant connection between the duration of care and mothers zeigtee, worked and of Ferguson teachers classes of social alteration of six, to eight year old children, et al, then gives statistically significant tendencies behavioral disorder scores 1987, in the words of the researchers, It in order to become addicted to as well increasing duration of nursing.\'"

* Granting to Elizabeth N. Baldwin, Esq. after outstretched "nursing and the law":
Nursing is "a warm and affectionate way to be corresponded to the needs of toddlers and young children. It encourages her/it/them only aufwärts on and gives them new drive; it calms down also the frustrations, pushes and blue stains, and daily burdens of early childhood. Ohßerdem helps to work bygone childhood as a nurse, little brand a gradual transition to childhood."

* Baldwin continues: , To meet a child\'s dependence, needs, the key to it is to be helped this child to gain independence. And children grow this Bedürfnisse out that grants to her/its/their own unique schedule." Children, who gain independence with her/its/their own speed, then is surer in this independence, the children prematurely in independence forced.

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Working a toddler as a nurse is NORMAL

* The American academy of the pediatrics recommends, that nursing should be continued "at least for the first year of living, and beyond for as yearn you itself as wished both from mother and child... increased, duration of nursing lends significant health and development benefits of the child and the mother... it doesn\'t give any upper border to the duration of nursing and no proof of psychologic or development damage from nursing in the third year of living, or longer." (AAP 2005)

* The American academy of the family Physicians recommends, that nursing continues lives throughout the first year, and that nursing offers of considerable benefits to both mother as well as child "beyond the first year, and should continue as it, you yearn wished as both." You also notices, that, "if the child is younger than two years full age, the child in elevated danger of the illness is, whether it is disaccustomed." (AAFP 2001)

* An AMERICAN surgeon General boasted, that it is a happy baby, continues this to work as a nurse until old two. (Novello 1990)

* The Worldhealthorganisation emphasizes the importance to work full age as a nurse until two years or beyond HIS/ITS 1992 of THE 2002.

* Scientific research of Katherine A. Dettwyler, doctor of the philosophy shows that Dettwyler 1995 are what our children will draft, 2.5 to 7.0 years of care in order to expect.

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MOTHERS profit also from it to work bygone childhood as a nurse

* Stretched out be in the habit of postponements the return of the fertility in some women through the suppressing of ovulation (hint).

* Nursing reduces the risk of the breast cancer (hint). studies have a significant reverse association für duration of lactation and Brustkerbsrisiko found.

* Nursing reduces the risk of ovary of cancer (hint).

* Nursing reduces the risk uterus of cancer (hint).

* Nursing reduces the risk of the endometrial cancer (hint).

* Nursing protects against osteoporosis. Während the lactation experiences a mother decreases of the bone mineral maybe. A nursing Mama\'s bones, maybe mineral density becomes from 1 to 2 percent in the whole Kit reduces örper while she/it still nurses. This becomes to theück won, and bones, maybe mineral density actually increases if the baby is cured of the breast. This is not abh in the motherängig from additional Kalziumergänzung\'s-Nahrung. (hint).

* Nursing reduces the risk of the rheumatoid arthritis. (Hints).

* Nursing, to decrease about insulin requests in diabetic women (hint), was shown.

* Mommies, to nurse, tends more easily, (hints), to decrease.

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from KJ, I nursed my son until he/it was 19 months and my daughter until 22 months. Now für both of them in those ages was only the last feeding before going to be slept with night. Both was f at solid mealür all other meals. In her/its/their ages, to work as a nurse, was only a way to loosen her/it/them, before they went, für the night, to sleep. No one of my children grasped with other Frauen\'s-Brüste, in order to work as a nurse. Maybe that is more because they were not taught the difference. My two offspring, that the healthiest immune systems will now have and very always have been heathy.

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day good through John M Jeanette, I was, you nurse, you tell three. I had intestinal problems and even milk couldn\'t-Aufnahme to this day milk, and I don\'t progress. I have all ways, now been very healthy for years. I see 40 and ich\'m 58 and still fights and game football and run and training.

Some children will push away if ready and others must be removed, if the mother is wearily from it or matters, it is time to change the feeding program.

through wcowell2.... not with all. 14 months is completely acceptable. In Europe, I read upto 7 years old from children.

I never become this for as it forgets, you yearn as I am alive. I saß in a BK in London. A young, I würde says, was approximately 5, was with his/its mommy and two smaller siblings there.

He/it goes over to his/its mother. Open her/its/their blouse and pull one of her/its/their breasts out of her/its/their BRA and away only starts to suck.

Mom twitched not even back and placed only away to eat her/its/their ream.

through locks you Obber!!!! where I live, is the official government recommendation to nurse your babies for a MINIMUM of two years,...

Where I live, viz: the exotic, strange, solitary nation from Canada.

Looks after toddlers is NORMAL everywhere, but the uptight, baby-unkind U.S. of the A.

through rinku a baby health wisely is not bad.its very good for child, but now, she/it will take the trouble to nourishing, you 5-6 year old child.but his/its good for child also his/its helpfull for prevents you Brustkerbs.

through in my neighborhood is not you the single, and while it is not allowed to any good idea b to take the trouble itself, your sister after law, to hold to get, you can definitely teach your niece that yours are not for her/it/them.

from KathieJo, some women nurse until the child is a quantity older than 14 months. There are many positive matters over breast feeding and very little negation. Sound the credit of a problem, opinions, like Sie\'wieder over your brother and his/its wife\'s parenting-Ideen, to do. Live and leave, you live... only because es\'s that your way doesn\'t do it not to the wrong way. KJL

through maegs33, you are not the single sadly, that feel this way.

It is not only OK, that still nurses her/it/them, it is to be preferred that she/it still nurses.

What? Did she/it become a calf as she/it rotated 12 months old?

We have all types of strange complexes over breasts in the USA. Some women place auf\'t wants to work as a nurse with all, because her/its/their boobs "for my husband is." I find * this * sick.

Children ask for therefore as soon as they were born. Some children come on 2 months Zähne along. Some go with 8 months, all those milestones are willkürliche names, that don\'t have any root indeed. Babies are no sexualized, we shouldn\'t forces our in the time of-towardsössischen ideas on her/its/their biologically designed behavior.

WoWo I lives, it is usual, on 12 months and in the 2. Year, to work lives as a nurse. Most of my friends, all the college trained women, nurse until * at least * 16 months. I nursed my first selbst-entw until him/itöhnt with 2.5 years. It was one of the best experiences in my life, you kit knocks önnen\'t until you tried it.

Sometimes all this are said, older babies must learn nursing manners: pulls with your shirt not for example, or is not enough along it, if you are not comfortable with it. A simple distraction, diversion, or one "No" with a smile is enough.

It, from which there are many benefits, that are difficult for them everything to be presented it, with it, is not only for the baby, MOM reduces her/its/their risk of breast and ovary\'s cancers significantly in that she/it nurses her/its/their children longer.

Michael Jordan was worked as a nurse until he/it was more than 3 years old, Einstein also. It was normal and natürlich, until to work a child as a nurse before only 50 years in toddlerhood. Es\'s times, about there to theück, to arrive, for the health of mother and child.

through mystic_e... American academy of the family doctor

from Shera O no she/it is not to old... indeed met her/it/them only the bare MINIMUM of nursed age

what you are for an experienced" "mommy in order not to know this????

my first worked as a nurse until the age of 3.5 years

Unfortunately, you are not the single through iamhis0. But you and those, that share your opinion, are wrong. I nurse gegenw14 months mean old son, like your Brüder-Frau, ärtig. We have that of the WHO and UNICEF recommend minimum not even reached. The AAP and THIS beyond 3 years this care agrees, is healthy, nützlich, and no social or psychological negations have... indeed is it to social and psychological development useful. You/they both also boasts, thereß of disaccustoming before the age of 2 brands of a bigger risk for child, in order to become sick.

Some of the ladies before me prepared big information. Learn over the wonderful benefits, to nurse beyond 1 years.

through punkinsm... I cannot believe, that many people feel so well with it with a woman, who nurses old baby for her/it/them 14 months. Natürlich es\'s O.K.. This muß the single country in the world, that has such a complex over nursing, is. A baby, 14 months old, needs his/its mommy and es\'s such a wonderful way to band. Now, if a 14 YEAR old child worked, that a really other suggestion wäre, as a nurse.

Viva la leche!

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through madiesmu... so old knows isnt mommies, who still are her/its/their 2,4 b/fing, i 14 month and 6 years old. therefore whats the problem???