Feeling bad at this not silence?

However, I always have had difficulties this time of my children nursing, was very difficult. My son immediately snapped on it and a pro of the beginning was. MeineMeine daughter was one week long in the NICU, and I pumped milk für she/it. My problem is, thereß got after two weeks to be very difficult. I spent my whole time with it, him/it and no time with her too füttern. Also, our house was quite besch with my other childrenäftigt\'s-Freunde and populates stopping through it, and the way, that our house will put on there, is no much private area to be pumped, and at the time, I didn\'t can up and down myself stairway to use our bedroom to pump, does. Therefore in Kurzschluß gave up I, but now, I don\'t feel so bad silence and pumping over this. Everyone does me the say of me f shouldn\'tühlt itself badly, but I do. I fühle me like I, fails my children and that I was supposed to have taken the trouble more heavily. Each other ever has angef like itühlt? and if with it, what you did, about itself too bemühen, to get over this feeling?

Note: Are my twins only 4 weeks old, do you believe that part of this feeling could be the hormones?

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Hun, above on the emotional overweight and the hormones, you had place people everyone which and no, you should not feel bad. ICH\'ve known nursed children, who have bad health problems, and bottle ernährte children outdoors. Während I the nursing Nazi recognizes, \'s the america tries to bring not-nursing mommies to it to feel bad, you do what is right from you and your children. You/they tried your best, and nobody can you dafür annoys. You/they got the most important source from breastmilk in these first few days.

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Thank for everything for your answers! I wünsche, that I could give any 10 pts. Thanks dafür, to bring me to it, to feel better, and you are right, they got the most important milk within the first few days. Thank again: o,

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by MelG, this is meant completely to be helpful, now, that up and down you are capable to go, why doesn\'t pump, while you feed your boy and your bottle feed this to your daughter? If of SieWiedergefühl so badly, and producing still, do you trouble kwim for itself, something against it, to do? If of Sie\'wieder only 4 wks pp, you kprobably calms önnen, you do both. Otherwise müssen you only recognizes, that you did what you could handle. * Shrug * the being of the stubborn b*tch, that I am, however, ich\'d works bem at itselfühendem doing, it now works. lol

no Supermum is through me! Do I hate to ask about it, but do you spend much time on YA?
Because this could bring everyone to feeling badly over everything, which they do, except if you really are the mythical, and nicht-existant, Supermum.
Hormones, maybe a little one of the baby blues, don\'t help but you should feel really not bad, it sounds like you, you have enough to occupy itself/themselves with it!
You/they don\'t let your children fail, as you yearn as you, is not hungry or beats her/it/them, you don\'t let her/it/them fail!

from SandC yes, the hormones probably took here. , To give up Es\'s, in order to decide heavily, but sometimes, your elections become beschr particularly with twinsänkt! Sheesh. MeinMein had first I an unexpected c-Teil, and I bemühte me so heavily to breast feed besides the pain of the c-Teil and the fact, that he/it snaps wouldn\'t on it, was too much for me. With my daughter mußte I a Wiederholung-c-Teil has, because they were so near. I decided dafür, to take the trouble itself not even, to say, superfluously ich\'m over it and children is healthy and glad! You/they will go do it well, Don,für all bad \'t-Gefühl!

through frogysue Be proud, that you made it so wide, as you did under the circumstances. It shows how much you love your babies, für this you so long pumped, it is so much more difficult than nourishing of the breast! People wählen Brust-vs-Flasche for all types of reasons, and, to be a big mommy, is not this you over it chooses.

from Rachacha Keine worries small lady! I wählte, no one of my 4 children and them to nurse everything is older and glad and healthy!

As soon as you, that your baby is simply finely without it, sees become recognize you, there is not anything in order to feel approximately bad!

through Mommy @! hello, you bemühten itself, thats this whole can is demanded from you.

through abfabmom.... oh. good heavens. you should not feel guilty. Es\'s completely a persönliche decision, and there is tons of people, whom whoever only punish, on formula there. Indeed, dort\'s a whole generation of us who never tasted good breast milk!

Do you not let your children fail.... you feed her/it/them, if hungrily she/it, right is? Das\'s this, which höchst important is.

And yes, there are thousand of women, who want to nurse, literally but then different reasons don\'t can... I can promise you, that they feel itself, or at least felt, bad for it, but recognizes, that it simply is the reality.

Your strong feelings could absolutely be, at least partially, was based on hormonal alterations. As your Körper begins to return to normal, and as you see, like both of them grows and healthy is, your worries will dissolve.

This is one of many matters over parenting, that will make you for question, whether you do right or injustice. In parenting, and in lives müssen we decisions meets, and is, comfortable moving forwards with them. Don\'t foresees!

through moonstar, I went like it, but got fast over it. I weiß, that I did this, which was the best and did you so. My son was für three and half a week in the NICU. I mußte the whole time pump because they didn\'t leave me quiet him/it. Although I pumped, mußten she/it still with formula supplements. As he/it came home, only mußte I him/it every two hours feeds, but I also had to pump! , I could only pump because learns couldn\'t we, as is too quiet at this point, and if he/it tried the suction, würde he/it nothing gets, except if I pumped. This was not möglich, in order to do the clock. Then, as I me, that was pumped only some days long, to the work to theückbrachte. My supply ran from because, as I got home, that I für my son had to provide. I thought ungefähr "relactating" however it is in the best interest of me, my husband and my son, in order to take care of the family, instead of pumping some drops and, to get. He/it now is fünf months, never has been sick, Thank God, places to increase away, and is glad. He/it gets his/its Nährstoffe. DerDer breastmilk, that he/it helped, that is had at the beginning, also muß.

Therefore don\'t feel bad. If you do a cost usefulness analysis, you did the best election.

please feels dont bad from e-Mutti... O.K. that we all know that breast is the best in my opinion, that goes out the window, if you, that work the best for your child and you, must make whats! my daughter woul doesn\'t latch any period. my nipples were blistered, and bleeding and she/it were the whole time hungrily un the desire, to talk, fütterte each five mins, that no time left, to then pump my milk, that was dried,... as it went, still was too stubborn i in order to give in because was startled by feeling like a failure i. eses came to the point, where cries w iürde, because she/it had to feed i, which is, if i sterelised any bottle and i never looked back! do you look at your babies... is she/it gladly? do they thrive? are they satisfied? then, you should be a proud mommy because it you, that did, you pass this..... not your breast not the bottle.... your desicion, about whats at the best f, to do ür baby,:)

from AP, I am in same situation, because my son is, was my first child now,it 19 months and did, didn\'t know so very much, and nobody was around for every help.
i wanted my son, who was used, in order to begin crying,,he, that are used, in order to suck 2-3 seconds long to breastfeed,but and then begins, crying,it was not, there was not any milk,,but, that it was alot.rather, that had so many pains i because of the milk, placed to flow away.
the out,more i-Verwendung was in the habit i of taking, more milk was, coming.but got that my son didn\'t want to drink,and i that procured eh hungry is and was in the habit of to give him/it bottle.
i still feels that more badly i serve hard,moreover despite from vagina birth i did, number of it had, sewed, and i took 2 weeks too recover,i, was 18-20 hours in work and be reason this maybe, that no feeing was very healthy i to struggle with baby, who brings him/it to it, to live from breast.
but i nevertheless regrets on it...