Does my cousin of nursing of her/its/their twins (7 month) exist, they always scream from hunger!!? I intervenes?
She/it rejects to feed them baby food, or grains and these children are hungry. I am worried seriously, thereß she/it undernourished is. Everytime, that I spend time with her, she/it becomes a baby für 5-8 log about a side nurses, then, same quantity of time works the other baby as a nurse, and will repeat this process, the whole time i is there. Care hält she/it not between feedings across. If I want shouting babies rei for her/it/them from her awayßen and feeds them any meal!!! I should call DCF? You/they are 7 months old, and they are ungefähr 11 pounds everyone and 22 inches long. (they were 5.9 and 5.12 pounds, therefore she/it a healthy weight für twins. these babies kit doesn\'t express önnen, that they are miserable, and everyone in the family told her/it/them that they should get feddings at least additional. She/it is 18 yrs old and believes she/it, thereß she/it everything knows. You/they gewann\'t takes her/it/them to the pediatrician, about Sch,üsse to get or to get advice about feeding and weight. I have a 6 month old, thereß i nurses, therefore un everything for it. Should I call DCF?!?Additional details
FYI: I know the circumstances, there is not anything wrong with her/its/their stomaches. She/it believes, thereß she/it super mommy is, as you yearn as her/it, she/it nurses, she/it is the single, that the babies need. It is a control question. Is DasDas, why I am concerned, is not it about what is in the best interest of the babies. You/they fühlt itself she/it uses" "and is fullfilling, that her/its/their need to feel, at the cost of them needed.5
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You/they and all other tried to speak with this girl. She/it either is unwilling or unfähig, to listen to reason.BECAUSE OF THESE BABIES LIFE, PLEASE YOU/THEY PLEASE TELEPHONE CALL DCF PLEASE!
Hello again. Her/its/their situation surged really heavily on my heart, therefore I called a coworker, the for years für DCF worked and told she/it over your situation. She/it said für you, not to hesitate over it, to call DCF for fear, that it could give problems with the law to your cousin. SieSie says, thereß she/it many similar telephone calls that handled, what she/it did, and is going to the home out, talks with the parent, you explain the parent like her/its/their children to be in the habit of right, and works together with the parent to write down a plan for it to nurse the children. She/it often said, thereß the people good people, who had to hear only that, what had to be done to worry for her/its/their children, from an authority figure, was. She/it calmed me down, thereß if the parent cooperates with the worry plan are not informed about her/it/them the law. Hope, thereß this helps.
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through animal lovers as soon as you this age your alleged one to feed them grains and hard, but soft meal, that are, why. (maybe,
through melkins5.... if these children no doctor on a regular basis for shots and regular checkups see, then, the problem is beyond nursing. Even if she/it thinks, she/it has over the lot of meal, that she/it eat, right she/it, to see still be under regular observation of a doctor, should, how they progress. These babies need also her/its/their Schüsse, before they get illnesses, that could be deadly, if it is not prevented. I würde Social services call. If nobody will intervene in your family otherwise, and becomes für this child, who has children, provides who then becomes?
through Mick if you can speak without blame or anger at her quietly and well, you take the trouble to speak with her. Take any information over babies. Hören you him/it to, which she/it at the says, why she/it does this. Make compliments for her/it/them because of that, what she/it makes good. It will make her/it/them zuzuhören, wants more. See if you find out können, if she/it plans to live, they and which can are done to help. Hören you to and finds out information about this, which on into her/its/their mind goes, before you and jump judge on her. If you win her/its/their ear and its lowermostützung gives, maybe you can do more to help out, disconcert her/it/them as you.
through jill_is_.... DCF is a little extreme. Her/its/their cousin probably is desperately, itself too fühlen, she/it is successful and maybe the idea that she/it could Brustfutter-longterm had and now, feels that she/it would fail if she/it takes another possibility. , Instead of to give her a hard time, bemüht itself and increasingly the fact, that she/it is a good mother and a big work did at giving the best beginning to her/its/their babies in lives. Give her/it/them a book maybe over healthy recipies for babies and which she/it would recommend then asks you she/it. If she/it itself fühlt, she/it is in control and the meeting of decisions sooner than all other, telling about her, what to do, is, she/it will make the right matter of itself likely. With 18, that you never want, this you admitted, is wrong!
I have through myself as a mother of the twins a real problem with it. My boys were 5lb12oz and 5lb13oz as they were born. With 7 months, they were ungefähr 18lbs and now, with 11 months, weighed that becomes you between 20 - 22lbs everyone. 11 pounds seem only für a baby, who ages, so small. You/they spoke with her/its/their mother or the father of the twins to let her/it/them maybe intervene, würde suffices. You/they müssen from her/its/their pediatrician is seen, because all children grow differently, and he/she determines, whether the twins are healthy. If she/it gewlistens önne, \'t to somebody, I would consider to inform DCF definitely. Könnte this problems for you and your cousin causes, but is the health that Babys-Wertes this?
from Heather is her/its/their election, about nursing u dont, to continue, knows the circumstance to her/its/their disicion there, you tolerate, could not be sufficiently ripe, about my daughter couldnt grip still something, to handle breastmilk baby food, however, until she/it was 18 months, and she/it cried b/c, she/it was hungry, but if she/it still was something, along which her/its/their system would close, givin
from Kristin why doesn\'t can, you nurse both babies at the same time? Isn\'t this, why we 2 boobs have?
through all_arou.... it should the most definately, infant grain introduces meanwhile. The best time für grain is not earlier than 4 months and not later than 6 months. This is so that the babies don\'t develop any chimney allergies. Seem like her/it, needs me only any lowermostützung, believes dont, that she/it takes the trouble to hurt her/its/their children on purpose.
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through mamaDee, IF the babies increased right, and IF she/it produced enough milk, no other meal would be used these young; but, as that is not the case, maybe you must force any help gently on your cousin. You/they muß unequivocally understand, how important it is, that she/it eats correct meals, and much water, in order to keep her/its/their milk, drinks, you flow upward... also profits with a La Leche-Verband representative, who can encourage her/it/them to continue nursing, she/it from a visit maybe while they supplement also with formula. You/they muß recognize that she/it will be a more successful mommy if she/it supplements her/it/them, as uses instead of only continuing likes, she/it has, and maybe she/it gets these information more easily "professionally one from it."
Finally, you mentioned the DCF. I assume these means, that you live in the U.S., so I place auf\'t your system knows very healthy..., but in Canada, there is such a variety of the programs verfügbar, young mommies, and the most attempt, to therefore make do without any thought of it, to remove from her/its/their worry per the babies, to help. It as simply as the credit could hit a couple of somebody with her is, times & takes you she/it to the date of a doctor... or she/it could be done to visit a few parenting-Klassen... and so on. Some Bby what a mommy struggling itself is mated with a mommy, who has both, offers even mentoring-Programme üros, you & training find out in parenting, and they only would hang out & would go to the tea and would teach the young mommy the whole time as is matters to be criticized without her/it/them to be done. Report an anonymous Gespräch to your local office at & inquires you for itself with reference at her/its/their services, and her/its/their philosophy on permanent mommies & babies together.
through lucrecia, I agree: they should get any meal differently, as her/it nurses. Morevoer, they should regelm from a pediatricianäßig is controlled. Maybe könnten you to your cousin proposes, that she/it would have more time for itself, if she/it certainly began I`m and so on with baby food, grains, she/it is quite exhausted by her/its/their present routine. Over all, you emphasize the fact that these babies immediately must see a pediatrician. If maybe she/it brings to them it`s doesn`t a good idea to call DCF. But as the last alternative.
through ginkes28.... first, the children like she/it sound from all, is under weight. Secondly, if they were not yet supposed to have seen a doctor, muß this ASAP is done. Thirdly, although maybe your cousin means it well, it is möglich, that she/it produces milk sufficiently not, and that is why they always are hungry. This is a gewöhnliches problem, that women have. Schließlich old needs these children my best recommendation with seven months, other meal of her/its/their food, baby food is shocked instead of adult meal how it can be full from seasonings and salt. SCHLIEßLICH, speech to your cousin over all these worries and the matters, that first learned you here. Tell her/it/them, you are für she/it there, and you will go this to it Dr.\' s with her. If she/it rejects to answer, würde I what you must do, then does. I certainly am she/it doesn\'t recognizes, thereß she/it maybe her/its/their children starves, because she/it produces milk sufficiently not. Glück to you and the babies.
through qatsuq45 you definately must grains for them as well as breestfeeding gives. You/they können as early as 2 months with grain begins. She/it should see a doctor meanwhile. I place auf\'t, this thinks a normal installment is, meanwhile, they should try at least to race or something. You/they können on breast milk not alone is endured. Speak with her/its/their mommy and have her/its/their interviene.
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