Did I have a drunk 1 night attitude and be married to 2 children now, whom the father stays with us, pregnant, but i?

we had moved only to tampa fl, and no one of us was glad, but we had torn 6 months, and only 3 of those had been used. i went für a night in the city out and became drunk. from i of found 2 months späterer i was pregnant. the father had been drunk and met i and told him/it. he/it is 40 and unmarried, but always wanted children. he/it was so glad thereover and wanted involved desperately. my husband was ouchßer O.K. excited, and we proclaimed it our 8 yr old twin girls. the baby had i 3 and remained während my pregnancy in near connection, although we now lived in the seychelles. we have a 3bd home and he/it asked whether he/it could come and remains, by his/its M, to see little ad. i loves my husband, and he/it loves me, but he/it became very much on the babys-Vati of eagernessüchtig and went 2 weeks ago. he/it called me and told me, thereß wants me he/it him/it, however, to see, doesnt glad being feels about the babys-Vater. he/it is in las-vegas and becomes regelmäßig gotten drunk. he/it said, thereß he/it besides it returns, needs any time to think and is the babys-Vater from it, ONE, away. i loves him/it and würde him/it to las-vegas however the i jargon permission the twins and the baby follows, she/it still nurses, and she/it would miss too much i. EinEin wants to be so very much in the babys-Leben and a regulärer parent is and i knows, that she/it is OUR daughter, but

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he/it, that lives with us, isnt remaining only some weeks long, until we, what, work out to do, am,
and my husband doesn\'t hate the baby, whom he/it simply doesn\'t love her/it/them,
the father will move out soon, and my husband knows him/it this, only couldnt endures him/it, because he/it is there,
DONT BEURTEILT ME, I BELONGINGS ONLY ANY MISTAKES GEMACHT

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What for a friggin-Durcheinander, that you did.

I say that you get out the daddy of the newborn from the picture. He/it can see the child with visit. Get him/it your hubby on Fthe new baby assumes ährte and in time zurück\'ll as part of the family. Give up, itself too bem, to play ühen, both ends of the candle here. Sit down in the Ehemann\'s beschlägt, as you rob him/it in order to live into the house a woman would feel. Get the baby deshalb\'s-Vati from the picture of the day to day living.

If you cannot do, this as well as then men discards, as also starts with child support of both men as well as you of in the front, you get yourself on birth control.

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Listen hepmom!! gives you no thumbs down, because it is not what you want to hear. You/they müssen the TRUTH hears... sad, it must hear you like it to hear. 100 percent 1 voices saves to it! ! RSS

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durchdurch austinfo... gives you A care of the baby, and you visit. You/they remain with your husband and your children at home. What für a chaos.

through ash either your a total whore or you invents stories! if you loved him/it, wäre this a night attitude NEVER drunk happens, or that is not NO apology for adultry!

beside Savannah Der type, that got you, from which itself pregant that your husband is not must move. What are you for VERRÜCKT?

from Amy, both of u must agree on it at a dicorce and a move.. what made u, was wrong.. U knows this! THEREFORE... continues you, and dont is married again faithfully since u jargon stay..

from Rachel, you go outdoors and finish you to invent stories


We judge you on inventing shit stories

from IndianaJ.... kiss your marriage good free ticket

from Dru, I don\'t believe that your marriage will ever work. Her/its/their husband becomes this child the rest of his/its life resents. That is not sch to your babyön. You/they should continue and should find somebody again, or only is individual and pulls up your children. You/they kit really decides önnen\'t that this situation and everyone are glad,... you can be father and parent both switch on her/its/their own children and move.

through sexzykah.... they cannot be serious that this like one that is lame lifespan films sounds,... ugh.,.. and if you für real is, and I tend do doubts, that you then are, need all three from you to allow a therapist, particularly your husband for it, your baby daddy, like ridiculously, brand makes him/it healthy you to move into your house.... speech almost funktionsgestört and you have twin daughters, who are, topic about it? Her/its/their husband was supposed to have taken her/it/them with himself and you with it there left this baby daddy and new baby... who is also a dreadful accident in this lifespan film.... thanks für the 2 points

, I believed, through Rachel Wan Kenobi-Bewbie-Meister, that this was a troll and fished approximately to be honest.

You/they cannot immediately have both types, and honestly your husband was supposed to have parted with you. Because he/it wants to stay with you, können Sie\'t has this other type LIVING AT HER/ITS/THEIR HOUSE!!! That is sick and wrong. Das\'s, that your Zwillingsmad little shows that it is okay to have connections outside the marriage.

You can be given to no advice different as gets out the other type from the house, if you want to remain, married to your husband. You/they können care with this type divides, he/it should not live with you.

after hepmom, a small twisted "DONT judges MICH, I did ONLY ANY MISTAKES"

You/they write that, as if your mistakes were smaller,... you, as my pancakes were yesterday to be dried you, or adding of a dark load of the laundry bleach.

Deceiving of your husband, that is not development and bringing an innocent child pregnant on lives in your f-ed, small. What you do, is to be calculated, like, to grow up, and aufzuhören, to deal like a frigging-Teenager. You will make good from elections, that concentrate on the best interests of your children, thought without Rücksicht on what you want, some.

Learn how to be a parent is.

maybe I think of Woka, that your hubby said, he/it be he/it with the whole matter okay, but unambiguous. I think, thereß it more badly before it will become, they get it better. A clear matter, in order to do, wäre, to put some borders on what is, and what is, no acceptible-Verhalten, visit rights and so on. The other daddy, who lives with you, is no M unequivocallyöglichkeit, even if your hubby says, it is, deep down, that he/it wants, that you say, that it is not. He/it needs, thereß you him/it over all other chooses, and as soon as he/it knows, as you feel that will more clearly be with your actions to him/it and not more easily words, the it will become. Glück!

from Justagir... this which is wrong with you and another man into your home moved? Never have go from visitört? I hätte you also leaves. , To think Sie\'wieder selfishly, thereß Ihr husband wants that this man with all of you is alive, and madly, if you think, this is a normal order. Her/its/their Loyalitthis man first is not any seminal fluid ät to your husband der\'s donated.