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I had boy/girl-Zwillinge 3 , and nursing had planned as I did with my older son (who is two and a half) until he/it was approximately 7 months old. But, as she/it ungefähr two weeks old was, I gave up. I stood f once per hourür 30 min.s on and was exhausted. I also was sore, and had a c-Teil, therefore bem,ühte I me, to recover from it. My husband and many people about me could see, like hard it für me was, and therefore me only too bottlefeed encourages. I was correct in agreement, on the prerequisite, that would be my children better at it for a SANE-Mutter, whether or they were not nursed. Now fühle I me however guiltily, that the same "treatment", that I gave to her/its/their older brother, gives to them didn\'t I.

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I, that blame is par for the course of motherthood, believe all the feeling guiltily in something we once or another! You/they are right, thereß you itself must recover, and that your children will profit from having a mentally healthy and regained mother sooner than somebody, who sacrifices her/its/their health and her/its/their sanity, in order to only nurse. If still you itself guiltily fühlen, schedule time for more, and so on luck, cuddles only itself

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through curiousj... i knows the blame, that you must have, for in my birth plan will nurse strict I. now, there was a complication in the birth, and I was only fähig, to pump. I did some months long and fühlte me only dreadful. with the whole burden, my milk didn\'t remain very at home so that I exchanged too bottlefeeding only with Formula. It took me, about a while thereover gotten. We können only that, what we can, we do and have the best intents for our children, but sometimes it, that grants to our plan, only doesn\'t-Gehen.

through starfire.... first should not feel guiltily from you.... twins are to be done the hardest matter, and your body went through a much harder pregnancy and a delivery than a result. You/they then should over her/its/their healthy being over which method, that she/it get her/its/their nutrition, procured is. I wasn\'t, the milk produces at all, and went nurse 3 months simply finely i with a hungry baby, since the doctor said. He/it is completely glad normal and very healthy now at 4 years old. You/they made a decision, that only you brand and shouldn conserves, \'t worries about which other people, will say. Alot of the people becomes you dafür here, to be no super mommy, slams! As yearn as your babies, this is healthy and glad, all be this important!

through sheloves.... Honey, big brother is his/its own person, who is twin, her/its/their own people. You/they grew and ripened, because your first child was born. You/they gewannen\'t ever is fähig, to give them the same "treatment" as him/it.

You/they will give all your children Ihr the best, every day thier-Leben, and, if that means feeding to help you to be healthier for her/it/them, fills sooner than breast feeding, it the correct decision would be. Don\'t verprügelte itself. Take your newfound-Zurechnungsfähigkeit and invests you it into interacting with your precious family.

Congrats on twins! Sie\'wieder a strong woman.

from q, you gave one of them to everyone the \'same treatment\' as the others, you gave THE BEST, that YOU/THEY could, to everyone of them in it.
Children are individuals, what works for one, doesn\'t make for another. This will become more obvious as they grow.
For now, you only recognize that you gave one to everyone THE BEST, that YOU/THEY could give TO the TIME.
Congratulations, you are a good mommy!

through momof3bo... I knows, that you, that it is better for her/it/them, are the guilty right, however, you have this a mentally mother healthy, that can take care of her/it/them and can play with them, as only nursing for you, that concentrated, and is so tired and incapable the whole time to spend the duration with them besides nursing. Während nursing sometimes wonderful is, that it only can, is made \'t. Geniusßen you your duration with your small babies only, I bet that they are simply enchanting and land, \'t-Sorge. if she/it older becomes, that it won, has an emotion \'t on them. You/they still become Flaschenfütterung and the stop of them is, while you fill feed, so that they still bind, and if you want the proximity, you then fill feed special clothing and make you for skin, in order to skin contact, during bottle feeding. Everything will be O.K..

through toonew2t... * embrace *

Smash in the skull over bodies!

Catch at one * well * mother to them will have more effect, that she/it ate, later than what.

from Sunflowe.... you will find that blame will always be your companion regarding your children. Doesn\'t-Sache what is it!

I am, sad matters didn\'t work out. ICH\'m also sad, thereß those people about you didn\'t encourage you to bring a lactation advisor to find out, why you had problems. If you are willing to give him/it to going one, you conserve relactate and ask for Bed Ihrürfnis, to nurse back. If you land, this way, that also is fine, wants to go \'t.

through gary, s Ever of nursing Both immediately tries nourishing one,stopping instead of itself, and could lend the other?Also to nourish your husband, you expel bottlefeed for you sleep,then, the breastmilk.With FMLA,he could take the paternity permission and you you with times.Once pump on a regular schedual, that the current should increase.And, eases you can store the breastmilk in the refrigerator.You, could nurse on your side, while sleeping,but, that only one you with a time.Contact on the network or that lactation specialists do with the hospital La Leche-Verband, delivered, had at.I three children, and the most recent ate like one her/its/their early.The differently disaccustoms pig,we, that in two through the night of the 5-6. month.Hang in there,get sleeps würden that involved your husband and the grandparents,so, whom you can lean.

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Father of three,my mother,great-Großmutter and several cousin is twins, whom big grandfather had eight children, too.Great.

from Jennifer L There, much pressure is to be nursed. Yes, in a perfect world hätten you she/it longer nursed, but, you must let it go. Sie\'wieder obviously an excellent mother, who made an educated decision, feed abzufüllen, so that her/its/their children would have the many benefits a leaned well, mentally healthy mother provides! Her/its/their babies will be simply fine. If you still are lactating, bemühen you itself, to nurse occassionally, if it fits your schedule. Obviously, you, that is won, \'t hängt from it for nutrition however from, t will look after you with an unparrallelled, the experience as well as a small immune system buoyancy for the babies binds.

I nursed each of my children 2 years long. I was a basket of case with my first because it took weeks for him/it in order to learn to nurse. I würde pumps, and shot feed then takes the trouble to click shut him/it on it. Each Fa hour took over ütterung, and he/it lived every 2-3 hours. I strung in over one month 3 hours of sleep not literally together! If gets the h hadn\'t he/itängen you of it, as he/it did, is I sure, that I would have been bottle feeding. Es\'s simply too much work. Dort\'s no shame in it, to want a small sleep!

You/they have newborn twins and a toddler! Give a break to itself!

through alikat co twins doesn\'t know I, whether I been able to nurse both. WäreWäre it at the beginning with one much work, therefore would be two madness.... Don\'t feels bad. So much as well as I is a Befürworter for nursing, it, \'s not the end of the world, if you don\'t do. Formula now is quite good, and your babies will never know the difference, ouchßer if you tell them someday. And rät something? You/they gewannen\'t-Sorge! you gewannen\'t even remembers! Hören you therefore on, to thrash itself/themselves, and you enjoy your small ones!

from KM, I nursed my chief, and bottle fed my 2. and 3. I believe, thereß my bottle actually babies benefited more fed, because not, I was quiet, as tired and I capable, to see in her/its/their eyes and to tell them, how much I love she/it was, while I fed her/it/them. AND, they got, from other family members gefüttert to become, that love her/it/them! Don\'t-Gefühl guilty about bottle feeding. Ließen you she/it sooner itself feels, that you emphasized, while they nursed, or do they let a relaxed glad mommy felt??

through mamasmur... it doesn\'t give any reason to feel guilty. Nursing muß for mother and baby(ies comfortable is, I give you credit, in order to come in the end, that it was too much before you broke. I fühle that we, as mothers, on our shoulders too much, that take the trouble, that to make the absolutely best for our children, placed, if ich\'m sure credit is a well leaned mother to your twins and two years benificial more old. Relax and place auf\'t, it looks as one "Failure" at, because the immunites, that you already passed to them, stays long with them. If you none about zuscaustic-like immunites provides, I think, there is something, which you can take at beginning, that produces milk again. You/they könnten a couple per day or something bottles pumps, but it must be the correct election for you.
I don\'t know how you do it. ICH\'m 38wks pregnant with a two and half a year old questioning, as I am gotten with a baby, who comes, through the first month. ICH\'m certainly get her/it/them from you much love, and that is what they need. It doesn\'t-Sache, whether the milk of the breast or the bottle comes. Geniusßen you your small blessing and your luck.