Help of my toddler, who beats my young baby?

Hello, I have twin six year old both girls, a three year old son and a daughter old 1 months.
My twins were through being had a younger sibling previously, and the baby doesn\'t disturb. They like to help me indeed with the Veralters of her/its/their nappy and feeding of her.

My son cried, as she/it, because he/it said, was born, he/it had girls enough. Es\'s-Art of verständlich the credit of three sisters, but he/it started to be met her/it/them heavily with the head.
I cope so the best with it, that I can, saying is mild, and she/it \'only caresses carefully.\'
But it is difficult if I am alone at home and the baby nurses. ICHMart of helpless, to do everything, if he/it comes up and you give a good hit.
I know, that it must be difficult for him/it, as he/it was the most recent three years long, therefore I don\'t want to yell at him/it, as I don\'t think, it will do it better in long run any.
Do you please help me? xx

through lynna

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I had also the same problem, as i my 2. Child bore. my then behaved 3yr old one very much very badly. He/it schlägt his/its baby sister at every opportunity, that he/it got. I was also like you, helpless. But now weiß I, that it was only one phase, through which he/it went, you knows, because you are the single child for 3yrs, and suddenly, his/its baby sister gets more attention than him/it. I believe, thereß most children like it are. Be patient only with him/it. Fyou now guarantee ür that that you land, leaves him/it \'t alone with the baby and solicitous, to spend duration with him/it, if baby must calm him/it sleeps.You down, that you still love him/it, as well like very much, before baby came along. Es\'s only one phase, he/it will learn to love his/its baby sister very soon, simply like mine did.

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Thanks.
Of course I have people, who were impolite over my parenting, him/it and occupied action punished! Es\'s only not working.
I troubled myself, the removal of his/its enjoyments, the bringing out of him/it in time and I smoothed, lost my mastery and shouted at him/it once, I needed only special pacification, that is, why I chose this answerer.

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through lilypad8.... It is not too early, you also explain him/it that he/it could hurt the new baby very heavily if he/it beats her/it/them.

through Chris H, I would put him/it on the barrel!!!

from JellyCat, I don\'t want to sound impolite or how an uncaring-Elternteil is very old besides your son to be sufficiently exactly ready over it to meet a baby through either a time out, or you hit dead on the barrel. You/they müssen very clear is and gets over previously your point or after he/it beat her/it/them.

through tfposer, you must discipline your son for this or he/it won\'t hold. ErEr could hurt your child seriously and someday she/it to roughly schlüge or only at the right corner and the hit her/its/their head back or something. This boy is sufficiently old, thereß in order to know improves, and you are, parent is. Place his/its Faß in a corner and there you bring him/it to sitting or hit his/its hand a good one every time if he/it beats this baby.
One from both way finds a discipline, that works, and nascent quite, in order to be a parent, startles. Es\'s Ihre work. It it, to now know you better, you him/it to the Kümmern sufficiently old does.

from baby Jace is here! Born Nov21st, that I land, \'t weiß, when became parenting, so that p.c., that you can hit your children not even bad barrels, or a good scolding gives them if they are over the top from control. He/it weiß better, you are the mother. You/they should stop this bad behavior before one can fulfil into other matters.

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if no spanker is, but I won\'t allow some matters in my house and will do what I must make sure to brand, that certain rules are followed,

through soni, It is typical for him/it in order to feel jealousy because he/it was the most recent for so long. What you do, müssen, is to be explained him/it, how he/it could hurt his/its small sister, but what helps maybe, is to be made him/it complicated. This there being and helps, erschließt it maybe his/its emotions from him/it to his/its role as a big brother. He/it muß however the borders knows, if it is nonstop, you become diciplinary-Handlungen, which job as you, begins, must. You/they place auf\'t, his/its Gef wantsit ignores ühle, because that is, everything is, which he/it to make mymself solicitous, his/its feelings decide, but with 3, it nevertheless is type of difficult to be vocalized. The other suggestion wäre any alone duration, to have with him/it, so that he/it still feels special for himself. A matter, the old son, that always from Mad little is surrounded, for my 4 yr works, if he/it has an alteration of the landscape. If you a friend, whom you know, and trust, that has a boy, has can play with it he/it, maybe it eases the tension, because of boys and Mad little soooo differently plays.

durchdurch chichiba... beats you him/it in the head, you, that he/it beats her/it/them, you, as he/it likes it, sees become bet I that he/it holds!

through Sunshine, my doctor always asked me to take the trouble to stop it before it happens, or avoids the situation of all together. WennWenn you sees, thereß he/it to the baby comes, troubles you for itself to distract him/it or asks him/it to hold and goes something for you. Ask him/it maybe, if he/it wants to help with something, children are empf to mattersänglicher of which they feel a part. Guarantee, thereß you also on a time in him/it daily any good one gets.

from Niko, formerly raven, I knows, that this probably is a jealousy question mostly, and maybe you already tried this, but, to show him/it actually, tries to touch like the baby in a mild way and what he/it will allow, instead of too bulky him/it only, to be mild, to do. do this ihm\'s at a time preferably, that doesn\'t meet with it at beginning. Take his/its hand and help him/it, the baby too tätscheln or, to touch the baby in a suitable way. You/they könnten him/it also to it a baby doll gets "practice" with and so he/it" can "help by doing what you do with the baby, with his/its doll. O.K., these are matters, that worked together with my 2 year old daughter, that maybe a bißchen differently, but dear an attempt is?

from Tessa Help he/it, to love his/its sister, and never help, to forget his/its sister, to love him/it.
Find something the main problem from him/it, maybe he/it believes that nobody cooperates with him/it. Accustomed love same part is wisdom. Ask your husband, with him/it näher, to be.

My friend a girl of three boys. She/it doesn\'t pick up deeply gladly with her/its/their mommy in thought/heart. Shadows... she/it is a man or as a man.

Thinks I, that we should teach them to estimate, am myself\' \'who. God manages before love with it I am", "whoever should give same part of love. Focuses, about too sch,corrodes. Balanzieren you part of worry, love, gift, unite,örigkeit. Schetch all children.