Do I not do like my child?

Knows it was SieSie, that maybe I thought, because they were preemies, and I didn\'t get, these, to spend much duration with them, because they were two months long in the hospital, after they had been born. Even, they said in my nursing book, thereß it normal was, no love, to feel lives for one or the others or both in the first two years. Well es\'s 2 and one half year. One of them I likes really not. I place auf\'t wants to be about her/it/them. Hören expresses her/it/them you you or sees you she/it. She/it has sense\'s questions, that I understand isn, \'t her/its/their blame. ICH\'ve bemühte itself, to direct the attention of her/its/their doctor to it. You/they won\'t give her/it/them any MRI to guarantee, she/it is O.K. in the head. As negotiating with her, I really believe, thereß something is, missing" "in her/its/their thought process. You/they gewann\'t ißt everything, even if it tasted well to property. Maybe I believed, thereß the problem I wasn was, t that feeds her/it/them. Therefore fütterte I she/it, and everything, which she/it does, is grip in her/its/their mouth like a squirrel the meal. That is the main problem. , To eat bringing from her. It provokes me to an Ausmaß, before which I never felt. She/it is small, and she/it has pediasure. But that quite seems to be, that really pick up her/it/them, the single matter. Juice or Flüssigkeiten. If please I she/it to do matters, she/it has this empty gaze like nothing, sometimes works in her/its/their mind. However, her/its/their twin is the opposite. I weiß also, that they say, twins like it are. Her/its/their twin will eat like her/it, will be a bottomless pit and will have Anfälle. But I place auf\'t over feeds you she/it. The same quantity gets you and her/its/their sis. I have one older daughter. I weiß that is more awfully twos annoyed. Because she/it the waters prüfen. But this beeinflußt our most recent weight. I kann\'t stuffs Essensdaune her/its/their throat. I wünsche, that I could understand her/it/them better. But the single person, who can tell me, thereß a small info her/its/their physiotherapist is. She/it shows me Bücher that I could buy but I place auf\'t money like it has. Therefore lädt me a child, whom I land, on \'t understands that not which me to like she/it causes. It annoy me if her/its/their meal eats all other and and she/it listens, places justs dunno like me there maybe, that she/it wants to starve to the death. I place wei auf\'tß something, to do. I am on my last leg with her. I weiß his/its sounds dreadful. I don\'t remind this M myselfögen from me for it, not to understand me, at my mommy. She/it is soo-Jungtier. I kann\'t, to eat her/it/them to it, brings. I am emphasized. I fühle me defeats. I wünsche, that I could find a way to bring her/it/them to eat. She/it will take two bites, and the silence is located only there. I tried the stop of the Flüssigkeiten joke, until she/it ate her/its/their meal. You/they aß, that she/it then would procure her/its/their beverage for a while, after she/it had eaten. Now she/it, that are won, \'t zerfrißt much everything. Es\'s awfully to Gefühl this way of my child. I nurse her/it/them although es\'s Zugh. That is, which für a mother should do. I love her/it/them unconditionally. I place only auf\'t like her/it. I get her/it/them everything, which she/it needs. I place wei only auf\'tß something, to do.

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I wish that my frustrations would not get in in the manner of me, that my child likes. I love her/it/them. I only dont\' like she/it. Großer difference.

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I tried to reach her/it/them and to identify itself/themselves with her. ICH\'ve bemüht itself two years long.

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want to make you for only one note. Thereß I for her/it/them provides. I place vernachl auf\'tässigt she/it. It brought one of the comments to seeming, thereß I this does. I said myself, you don\'t want in the Scorrodes. Doesn\'t means, thereß I not despite it does, how I feel.

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the single person, who wants, maybe to confess me, my twins, is done in any type from way to the invalid, my physiotherapist is. I wünsche, that she/it was pediatrician, because I know, she/it really takes care of children, and it shows into her/its/their work. I kann\'t brings even my own pediatrician to it, a MRI f,ür my daughter, to procure, because they look at her/it/them for 5 minutes, as I look 2 years long at her/it/them and say, she/it" seems normal "to me. I believe, thereß I pediatricians will change.

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from Mary

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Go to a development pediatrician. You/they will look at your child as a whole one and will do respects and diagnosis. You/they look at the whole child. Often, they discuss ern for itself also with itselfährenden clinics, another program, that maybe you want to find.

A regular pediatrician looks at illness mainly.

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Other Answers (6)

from Carol is u, the more certainly u no batteling with post birth depression is, as this is an usual feeling, if you have pnd.

from Tamera Dealing with the terriable 2s sufficiently solicitous, as it is, and if you throw it into a child, or maybe this has a hindrance, it causes the problem for this much worse. First from all würde recommends I to take her/it/them again to its Dr. and explains, that you would like to get in in contact with a nutrional-Spezialisten. Maybe you/they are fähig, to help more than only this Dr. even. Secondly könnten you the money for the books over info doesn\'t have and such, but you have the internet. There are many of support groups and information there hereover, that maybe you find helpfully. I believe honestly, thereß a support group of any type for you helpful would be. You/they hätten contact with other people, who go through all same matters, that are you. It is really schön, to know, that somebody goes out through the exact same matter there, as you are. , I have a son, that is adhd/autistic and gives it to day, on which I only want to give. Those are the days, I get on to my on-line community and remind me, thereß I this can do. Thereß I not alone is, Google is big. I Google everything and it is, as I found the groups, to which I go,öre. In the middle time, bem,ühen you your best, to hold silence open. Serve the für everyon worse sutituation on only brands

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Mommy of 3

through Jan You, two questions have here:
1, that occupies itself with a disabled child,
2, that occupy itself with your feelings, to have a disabled child. Maybe you/they also have depression since her/its/their birth on it above.

Question #1
Her/its/their child has problems with swallowing. EsEs can be cause through injury to the brain the isn\'t ungewöhnlich with very premature births. This is called dysphagia. My son has also this. It can be frustrating the Bem VERY MUCHühen, to bring him/it, to swallow his/its meal. He/it tends to it "Chipmunks it" in his/its mouth and then suffocates both and vomits, or spits it back from with me. It can für therapy better becomes. My son has also a heavy milk protein allergy, therefore he/it drinks Fütterungsrohrformel beside mouth (Elecare)., if I try Pediasure schlo to bring him/it, another formula,ß one, to try him/it, that is won, \'t-Schlaf with all and will scream all the night in pain. You/they müssen these problems has documented. My suggestion, if your Doctors would win, \'t-Hilfe is to be gotten new doctors. Some Doctors are idiots. The empty look if brain damage could be continuously, or if it happens, everyone now and then, absence confiscations. Take her/it/them from neurologists to an offspring.

Question #2, that you must get done with a therapist with it. You/they are her/its/their single hope in this world. If you absolutely reject, für she/it, to provide, you place her/it/them in foster worry. Do you not make you for her/it, or is it the conditions, from which she/it suffers? You/they müssen your anger at the right matter directs. Lead your Annoy to the medical problems and make it in lives to your goal to beat it and to make a profit in your daughter.

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a son with confiscations, hypotonia, dysphagia and heavy milk protein allergy and
a son with development postponement.

through jayne you let you take therapy pr parenting classes into consideration for itself? Maybe you/they have postpartum-Depression or any other question. Therapy and parenting-Klassen hülfen you, to learn better ways, to negotiate with all your children. You/they könnten capable, to get the root cause of your aversion to your small girl, is and, as your feelings are to be changed to be calculated. You/they sound like a good mommy, that from the challenges a bißchen overpowers from pulling up a child with particular needs is. This is the no matter VERY gewöhnlich something the "thorough" mama tries maybe to tell you. ALL parents mögen not sometimes her/its/their children..... some only rejects to admit it.

vonvon B R you, if she/it should take def to the doctor back,... some matters, that you cannot help, or solution.

But some matters, that you can take the trouble, she/it, that more nutrients are, too eat/get, to bring,:

Fruit, that you can use, smoothies a V8-Spritzen types juice with it, frozen, or fresh fruits and spinach fit in healthy.. the color isnt nicely, but if is she/it in a sippy accustomed you are capable to tell.

Also, you can try, fun, to let molded meal,.. my son loves dinosaurs chickens lumps

Troubles to only remain itself/themselves you, relaxed about her/it/them, maybe she/it seems empty, but she/it can sense "your frustration, and you told her/it/them your mom wasnt nice cause, didnt understands you, so that you know, as it feels,... the last matter, that you want to do, is brand, she/it looks badly for something, which is her/its/their blame really not.

Good luck hangs in there

from DAWK1723, that you need, about through the bid, to identify itself/themselves with her and to reach her/it/them, this something, to begin your therapist, is, must help you with it. You/they need a thourough-Verständnis for it was\'s, that maybe on goes with her through internet books or only books in a bookstore reads.

She/it eats something to grow, and thriving or she/it would have been dead before a long time.

You/they must to like she/it a way finds. They it your daughter, your child. Don\'t ließ her/its/their medical Probleme-Einstellung into the manner, to love her/it/them. Maybe she/it is different, but she/it nevertheless needs your attention. Make her/it/them with it like Sie\'d does with your other children.

Do you need to pass out special time from your day with her maybe? Do be married and f, to have ähig, alone duration with each child? Don\'t ließ Ihre frustrations in the manner get in to love your child.